I am so sorry to hear this. I am so sorry you are here along with the rest of us. I know this is the most awful and loney time in anyone's life.
I just went on Friday (2 days post DDay) for my full STD panel and Doc was very compassionate. Full blood and swabs done as well as PAP, WS also went and did blood and urine samples. I just hope I do not get a call, if I don't hear back it's all clean. In late March I know I was clean for blood bourne illness as I gave blood which is screened but I guess something could be missed, let's hope not.
I started getting BV infections 5 years ago and now I know why; that's when the cheating started. Technically it's not considered an STD but a lot of woemn get it if their partner sleeps around. Take care of yourself, take time for yourself. Do not blame yourself, this was all brought on by selfishness on your WS's part. WS and I are doing MC as well as doing a TON of talking on our own, more than we have communicated in at least 5 years. I look forward to each day, sometimes terrified by what might happen but also hopeful that things can and hopefully will get better. ((Hugs)) I really hope you are OK.