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User Topic: Reclaimed a vacation spot
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 2:46 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Last year we went to St. George Island. Throughout the trip, he was distant, short, and mean. Just had that look the whole time like he disapproved of me in general.

D-Day 2 happened the week after we returned.

We went last week. I was really apprehensive about going and felt like it would feel the same. It didn't. It was great. We had a wonderful time. I didn't want to leave and I can't wait to go back.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6726 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's awesome. I am all about stories of reclamation. Thanks for sharing this, Jana.

Posts: 7039 | Registered: Dec 2010
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 2:57 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks Losfer.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6726 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 2:58 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's great. You guys have come so far.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6442 | Registered: Jan 2011
LA44
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Default  Posted: 5:27 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's great JanaGreen! I am happy for you.

LA


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2285 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 5:56 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love it!

Jana you are one of the people who has inspired me and given me hope through this journey. Thanks for sharing this!


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2729 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 8:05 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you Rebreather. I wouldn't have thought this time last year that we'd be together & happy! Thanks LA44! HFSSC I am really touched that you feel that way. Thank you!


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6726 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
OnAnIsland
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Default  Posted: 6:31 AM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are very brave. Thank you for sharing. Keep on walking and working


D-day: Christmas 2011
D-day 2: 3/28/2013

Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful boys in elementary school

You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Maya Angelou


Posts: 1478 | Registered: Dec 2011
MrsDoubtfire
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Default  Posted: 7:51 AM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well done Jana- you really have come through to a better place.

You're an inspiration


BS(Me) FWH(Him) DDay 05.09
A went underground. True R 02.10
I won't let another woman reap the benefit of enjoying the man my H has now becomeć

Posts: 1572 | Registered: Jul 2009
kickboxer
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Default  Posted: 10:17 AM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My dd was about a month ago, and we were on vacation.

I still can't go through the pictures...a friend asked me for a few and I did what I had to do to find the few she was looking for, but I kept seeing them as a timeline. There were pics I took less than 1 hour before I found out...one minute I was living the life I thought we had, and the next I was living in a lie.

One day I hope to find the same peace you describe.


BW - 42 (Me)
WH - 39 (2 ONS, 6m EA)
Married 13 years, 3 children
DD: 7/13/13
Status: Rugsweeping, I guess.

Posts: 248 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Somewhere Out There
brokensmile322
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Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a difference a year makes! Glad for you, Jana!


Me BS 42 Him WS 44
OW Coworker DDay April 7, 2012
EA on a slippery slope...

When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. ~Viktor Frankl

"When you are happy, you can forgive a great deal."


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