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User Topic: Thank you! (for WS's)
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 9:23 PM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just wanted to thank all of the WSs brave enough to post. I have had nothing, no support, no truth, no information, absolutely nothing from my WS. Your posts have actually been more healing for me than the other BS posts. Mostly because I am getting the healing answers my H isn't strong enough to give me. Thank you. All of you. Please don't give up on your BS, yourself, or your Lord. If they are still in the game, they love you dearly.

Me-BS 43
Him-WS 45
Married 8 together 9


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB

Posts: 1784 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
metamorphisis
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Red  Posted: 11:08 PM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi StillLivin,
BS's are not permitted to start threads in the Wayward forum. It was a very nice idea however, so I will move this to Reconciliation for you where many WS's also read and post



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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UnexpectedSong
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Default  Posted: 2:19 AM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for the kind words. We are all works in progress.


WW(SA)
"Feedback is the breakfast of champions." - Boris Becker

Posts: 6046 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: California
SurprisinglyOkay
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Default  Posted: 6:48 AM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you!!

I saw this in Wayward and thought it was so sweet!!


FWS me 36 (recovering addict)
BS him 39
Together 7 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"


Posts: 1105 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B
Teach8
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Default  Posted: 7:12 AM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

StillLivin, I agree. When I read posts by waywards in that forum, it gives me hope...in so many ways. The amount of work, time and effort many have put in to becoming healthier people is truly amazing. And it doesn't just give me hope for my reconciliation, but hope in myself as I deal with my own stuff too.


Me: BW. Him: WH. Dday: 4/26/12. TT until 8/15/12 LTA 7 years. Trying to R

Posts: 468 | Registered: Aug 2012
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I saw this in Wayward and thought it was so sweet!!

X2

Thank you StillLivin.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"You can do it!" - R. Schneider


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StillLivin
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Content  Posted: 4:18 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so touched by all of the support. If my WH would give me just something, anything. Anyway, I've been hanging in there leaving it to God that the WH will wake up before it is too late and I've decided to move on. But at least reading all the posts by other WSs, I know that their BSs have to feel the same way that I do. Anybody trying to work on their marriage, it's something beautiful and a gift. I hope my words help them to stick it out and help the BS heal. I'm doing this alone, but it helps to know what he is thinking for me to heal.


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB

Posts: 1784 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thank you, StillLivin....


FWW - 40
Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent...

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LA44
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Default  Posted: 4:27 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, I have to second that - or third it! Although I have had the opposite experience as you StillLivin, (and I am sorry to hear that) I do appreciate every public and private message I get from those folks who fall under the WS category.

Good hearts and it helps as far as healing goes.

I know some readers cannot look at the WS forum but I got on there the first week I joined SI bc I felt the info. would be invaluable for me and my H.

Thank you.


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 1806 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
StillLivin
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Content  Posted: 11:02 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry MetaMorphisis. I Went BackaAnd Read.The Rules. Won't Happen agsin


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB

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