I have not had a date since I separated over 2.5 years ago!! Not even any near-misses. Not one, single solitary guy has even remotely hinted that they would want to go out for a cup of coffee - hell not one guy even hinted they would just want to use me just for sex - and I may be open to being a FWB!!
I've heard many stories from others who had dates even while they were separated, or soon after they divorced, but for me - nada, zilch, not even a wink. I know I'm not a head-turner, but I'm not a stomach-turner either!
So, my question is...how long after your S/D did you start dating? Anyone get back in the saddle after years and years? I'm looking for some hope here!! And yes, I know I need to be happy being by myself and I am happy by myself, but I choose to want to have a mate. That is a normal, human need - companionship. I am independent and I do not NEED anyone, but I sure do WANT someone.
So what's the record for going without a date?Spent half my life with an Ahole
D final!!! 11-11
"Obladi oblada life goes on...."