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brkn_heartd
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Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I need good thoughts and prayers tomorrow (if you pray). One of my goals before the A was to get my doctorate degree in nursing. After his A, my drive to get it went out the window. I could barely breath, much less think of returning to school. Two years ago, things feel into place and I started back to school very quickly. Tomorrow I defend my project. If I am successful tomorrow I have accomplished my goal and will be Dr. brkn_heartd.

I am excited because the A did not keep this from me. My H has been VERY supportive with school and helping me heal from the A. I was able to overcome the challenges of the A/school and get finished. Very few people know of the A so they do not know the additional struggles I have had during school.

But I am almost FINISHED!

[This message edited by brkn_heartd at 9:33 PM, August 11th (Sunday)]


Me-50 BS
Him 57-WS
Married 30 yrs, together 33
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10

Posts: 1441 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Northwesten US
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 7:52 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

clear thoughts and mojo headed your way!!

You should be proud!!


Me: 43, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 12 DS 9
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending positive thoughts for you tomorrow!


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click4it
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Default  Posted: 10:19 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WAY TO GO! I see a new Dr. in the house. sending tons of mojo you way, you can do it!!


Me: 41
Two boys: 16 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, honey!!! Sending you everything I've got for tomorrow. Knock them dead.


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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dazdandconfuzed
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Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lots of mojo coming your way, and congrats, too!!!


Me - BW
Him - WH

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ItsaClimb
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Default  Posted: 5:24 AM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow! Sending good thoughts your way!


BS 46
Together 29 yrs, M 25 years
2 daughters 24yo(married with a brand new little daughter) & 18yo
D-Day 18 Aug 2012
6mth EA lead to 4mth PA with CO-W. I found out 8 1/2 yrs later

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brkn_heartd
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Default  Posted: 5:55 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for your support and good thoughts today. I needed them today!

Thanks,
Dr. Brkn_Heartd!


Me-50 BS
Him 57-WS
Married 30 yrs, together 33
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10

Posts: 1441 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Northwesten US
Pentup
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Happy  Posted: 6:14 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations Doctor!!!


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 7:19 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Whooooooo!!! Hooooooooo!!!!!

Seems a little undignified for a doctor... Congratulations, Doctor.


Me: 43, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 12 DS 9
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!!!!!!




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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:43 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WOOOOO HOOOOO!!!! Congratulations and WELL DONE!


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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scaredyKat
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Default  Posted: 8:08 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great job! We are all Cyber proud of you!


Me-BS-59
HIM-SAFWH-63
Damn autocorrect is responsible for the silly errors, sorry!

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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Way to Go!!!


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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brkn_heartd
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Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you to everyone. In all honesty many times I would waiver in a lot of areas of my life (school included) and the support from this website kept me going. I appreciate the support over the last three years! It certainly helped me from letting the A win.


Me-50 BS
Him 57-WS
Married 30 yrs, together 33
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10

Posts: 1441 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Northwesten US
meaniemouse
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Default  Posted: 10:32 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

CONGRATULATIONS! As someone who was in the middle of the same process during my ex's many affairs let me say, "WHOO HOO"

Tell me--after you were finished defending did they send you out of the room and then when you came back in were they all smiling like their faces would break and saying "Congratulations Dr.brkn_heartd?????"

Whatever they said--again
CONGRATULATIONS!! I know what a huge accomplishment this is!

[This message edited by meaniemouse at 10:33 PM, August 12th (Monday)]


Act as if what you do matters. It does. William James

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NoTriangles
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Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WOW!!

What a huge accomplishment!!

Congrats, Dr B!!


Me: Forever Changed
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

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solus sto
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Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hooray! Congratulations, Doctor.

The dean of my nursing school strongly believed that even bedside nurses should be as educated as the physicians who care for patients. He succeeded in ensuring that the BSN was the lowest level of prep for nurses at that institution; they are just now starting to require Masters prep for bedside nurses. There were huge obstacles to this--namely, it's kind of hard to convince someone remunerated so very much less than a physician to invest in a similar education. But with the changes that are rolling out, I think the nurse's role is going to expand even more. (And they DO make it financially worthwhile.)

I am so glad you have earned your doctorate. You will go far.

(I wish I had done this long ago.)


BS-me, 52
WH(Mr. Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS17
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

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