Great post!!!!! I also feel A's are not at all about LOVE. They start as a sexual attraction......they only think they are in LOVE. Yeah, there is the off one that works after, but statistics show that the number of them is extremely low.
Puppy love was always hell wasn't it? You thought everything in the world was RIGHT. This was going to last forever. Maybe if some drug company can reproduce the chemical reactions that happen during an initial sexual attraction puppy love might last forever. A's can last a long time because of the absence of all those real world shit disturbing things that happen in a real marriage.
I too am very worried for society and humanity. It is sad to think of what all of this stupid behaviour is causing in the world....shattered lives, broken families, dysfunction everything!
T Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)
Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!