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User Topic: Who is just "done" now? I feel nothing.
TxsT
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Default  Posted: 11:01 AM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jewlz......

Great post!!!!! I also feel A's are not at all about LOVE. They start as a sexual attraction......they only think they are in LOVE. Yeah, there is the off one that works after, but statistics show that the number of them is extremely low.

Puppy love was always hell wasn't it? You thought everything in the world was RIGHT. This was going to last forever. Maybe if some drug company can reproduce the chemical reactions that happen during an initial sexual attraction puppy love might last forever. A's can last a long time because of the absence of all those real world shit disturbing things that happen in a real marriage.

I too am very worried for society and humanity. It is sad to think of what all of this stupid behaviour is causing in the world....shattered lives, broken families, dysfunction everything!

T


Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!


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sleepless34
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Default  Posted: 11:04 AM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Actually, I did send him that in writing. I said you felt bad about yourself and she made you feel better. You thought there was something missing with us, but that something missing was within you. Any woman that would be with a married man is someone who is desparate and cheap and pathetic, she accepted the worst parts of you. I said some choice things that I know hit hard. I told him what was going to happen next. He was going to realize how he lost everything and then resent her for it when the exciting affair becomes real life. I said when she has to deal with your lazy ass on the couch and your farting, she won't desire you so much anymore either. Then you are going to realize what you lost and it is going to feel really bad. But I will have moved on. Moved on to a better husband (with larger penis, had to say that just to be mean) who is a great guy and more sucessful and kinder, and a better Dad. and you, you will be eating take out fried chicken for Thanksgiving in some sad little apartment.


Me BW- 40ish, awesome
Cheating scusband 40ish
2 kids, elementary school age
Bomb dropped Aug 4 out of nowhere...

Posts: 443 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Hell
HurtButHopeful?
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Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I said when she has to deal with your lazy ass on the couch and your farting, she won't desire you so much anymore either...But I will have moved on. Moved on to a better husband (with larger penis, had to say that just to be mean) who is a great guy and more sucessful and kinder, and a better Dad. and you, you will be eating take out fried chicken for Thanksgiving in some sad little apartment.
In the midst of your devastation you still have a great sense of humor.

My own heart is always aching when I read here on JFO, but this time I LOL!

sleepless, you take care of yourself. You're doing things right, and WH will be the bigger loser.


Reconciliation means that we both are authentic and vulnerable. I still have my H, and he's a better man than ever!

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