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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 3:32 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Did you get home safely from your date?

I have been patiently (ok, maybe not so much) but waiting all the same for the update!!!

Do tell, please!


Me: 43, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 12 DS 9
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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HURTAGAIN1981
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Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Same here! I've been looking out for an update!!!

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Right? *tap tap tap*


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There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 4:15 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry. I wasn't building up the suspense on purpose, I really wasn't.

It actually went really well. He was very sweet and attentive but managed to hang onto his man card while doing so, yannow?

He lives in a different state (about nine hours off) but between work and family, he comes to this area on a fairly-regular basis. He said he will probably be here in about a month and if I'm interested, he'd like to go out again.

At this point, an LDR wouldn't bother me at all. Not that's what this is at this point, because it isn't. I'm not ready for a full on relationship, nor is the bunch. But sure, I can go out with a nice dude once a month or so. That sounds pretty good to me and like something we can all handle.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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Newlease
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Default  Posted: 4:23 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NL


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HURTAGAIN1981
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Really glad it went well

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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 6:14 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!


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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAY! Love this. Sounds about perfect to me too. Thanks for updating. Sorry (ok, not really) for being impatient!!


Me: 43, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 12 DS 9
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 7:03 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

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click4it
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Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

yay!! I didn't even know you had a date. How did I miss that??


Me: 41
Two boys: 16 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 7:50 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay Nanners!!

What did you wear?


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 9:39 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!!!!

Sounds like a very good new beginning.

Hugs

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
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InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 10:11 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds fun! I love sweet plus attentive plus manly.


Here's to A New Life of Excellent Health, Financial Abundance, Nature's Beauty, Amazing Art and Personal Creativity, with Love, Beauty and Peace All Around Us.

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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 11:34 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ama... a green shirt that was kind of open at the back (good color for my hair and eyes), jeans, wedges. I looked not horrible.

Thanks all!

ETA: He's going to be back 09/21...

[This message edited by wildbananas at 11:34 PM, August 12th (Monday)]


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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click4it
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Default  Posted: 11:41 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I looked not horrible.

Course not, you know you looked beautiful!


Me: 41
Two boys: 16 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


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cmego
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Default  Posted: 6:55 AM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 40, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, separated 3 years, together 17
Alis volat propriis "She flies with her own wings"
separated 1/2011

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 8:06 AM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I promise to surround myself with amazing souls and love them fiercely.

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better4me
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Default  Posted: 12:10 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

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