My D/Day was 17th Feb 2013.
Husband disclosed his 6wk affair with my then BF. It took place 32yrs ago .
He told our married DD - 34yrs and married DS 32yrs.
They of course were devastated
During a heated rant on my part - I told him that not only has he ruined my belief in our happy marriage, he has also caused great distress for our children. They have always thought that their Mum and Dad were so in love
I also told him that because of his A - did he realise that our DD & DS will forever worry that this could happen to them with their partners
Affairs suck and these WS have no idea of the long reaching pain they can cause
Sorry just needed to vent