Topic: Back and completely at a loss. what the hell just happened?
Member # 26465
| Posted: 2:14 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013|
Go see a lawyer before he does and locks you out of your accounts!! If he hasn't spoke to you I bet he is one step ahead of you????
They can get evil...Protect yourself..
There are degrees to which you let people back into your life and degrees to which you let them back into your heart-which, of course, are not the same thing
Posts: 3186 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Indiana
Member # 29332
| Posted: 2:40 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013|
That was AWESOME (((PrincessPeach))) !!!!
[This message edited by ineedtoleave at 2:40 PM, August 16th (Friday)]
Married 6 yrs
Oh what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive.
Posts: 958 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Arizona
Member # 37184
| Posted: 2:54 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013|
You did the best you could.
I'm so angry for you!!
Honey, you deserve to be treated so much better.
I hope you find the peace you so richly deserve.
Best forget him and focus on you and your babies. Nothing is more important.
Posts: 553 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: new york
Member # 29792
| Posted: 3:03 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013|
Thank you!! ALL.
I think Trent Shelton is my new best friend. (He just doesn't know it)
I worked HARD all morning to stay strong and NOT cry. I even had to call and tell something to H about an appt. we had that got canceled...and stayed strong through that call.
But, Trent...HE got the tears flowing. So much pain is inside of me. But it is so true what he said. It's MY fault that I am still here. It is time to take care of ME.
Me, the BS:38 ...now 42
WH...STBX:39 ...now 43
3 kids, 13+ years
Posts: 528 | Registered: Oct 2010
Member # 40050
| Posted: 3:10 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013|
I think sometimes we have to look at them as an addiction to something that is bad for us. We will go through withdrawal because we DID get something good from the addiction.
But, overall, that addiction, to a bad thing, will kill something in US, if not our whole being.
Me BW, Him WH
DD #1, caught 4/12/13
DD #2, tells me the whole truth, 5/21/13
DD #3, TT until 8/9/13 then full disclosure w/timeline
DD #4, 8/26/13, OW texts me more info, he tells me the whole truth
DD # 5, 9/11/13, he tells me the whole truth??
Posts: 130 | Registered: Jul 2013
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