[This message edited by StillLivin at 11:20 AM, August 14th (Wednesday)]
I hope your son is safe.
I hope your son is doing better. 18 is still a baby really when your trying to deal with dissolution of your family. My heart aches for him. My son was also 18 on dday.
As for when your h comes home: calm and cool as a cucumber. It is what it is.
I dont think i would tell him that you filed. Let him experience that on his own.
Good Luck and hugs,,,,