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User Topic: OW is trying to friend me on Facebook!
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Default  Posted: 1:30 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After the first DDay, MOW joined one of my weight loss FB groups and immediately "liked" one of my posts. I was floored. ?? Why would she do such a thing when she knew how much I hated her? So I started bashing her. When she asked about how to get more definition in her butt I typed "Implants?" because she already had fake breasts. When she posted something about getting such a great work out in that day, I posted "isn't it great what can be accomplished when you aren't texting my husband 400+ times a day?" Stuff like that. After about three days of it, she finally blocked me.

I did stalk her on FB for months after the first DDay. She left herself as a FB of my husbands' and Husband thought he inactivated his account. I would reactivate his account, stalk her profile for HOURS, and deactivate it again before he came home. I did that for the whole DDay #1. After DDay #2, I called myself out by posting all over her page under his account but signed my name to them. She then kicked him off (I blocked her from his site), but unblocked me. ? That's when she started apologizing for her place in the whole mess and I think it was a friendly gesture on her part. I blocked her as soon as I saw I was unblocked, though. I didn't need to see the frequent reminder of her around our 45+ mutual friends. It's only been in the last month or so I unblocked her, as I, at this point, have moved past the hatred of her. She is working on her marriage, we are working on ours, and she truly seems remorseful and respectful now. My whole train of thought is how can I still hate her when I don't hate my husband?

Me: BS
Him: WS
Married: 17 years
2 children
2 DDays

Posts: 255 | Registered: Aug 2013
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Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You should block her. I had to block my husbands OW. I don't want her knowing anything about me , our children, my work, nothing. If you want you spouse to cut all ties, you should cut them too.

Posts: 57 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Midwest
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