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User Topic: when all hope is lost
tearsofblood1
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Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My wife and I have been extremely up and down for the last year.

you can read my posts for my back story.

Perhaps today represented a positive step. I am cautiously optimistic that it is.

she texted me after a long phone conversation that she is done looking for something else, or someone else. that she realized in the last week that regardless of how much i hurt her with my a, and she has hurt me, that no one will ever love her as much as i do.

i am hopeful this is a positive step, as i have felt hopeless lately.


We're not broken just bent, and we can learn to love again

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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 3:12 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This sounds a lot less random and cryptic than the last text you mentioned. This does sound like a good step to me.

Any chance of you working things out in marriage counseling? I can't remember if you mentioned if you were already doing that or not.

There's also the aspect that you can work on healing yourself, and doing healthy things to make you feel better. There's hope to be gained from within as well.

Take care.


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tearsofblood1
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Default  Posted: 3:16 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know. I do tend to be random and cryptic. its easier for me to verbalize things, i apologize for that.

we have done couseling and perhaps will start again.

thank you for the response.


We're not broken just bent, and we can learn to love again

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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 3:19 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was actually referring to your wife's last text being random and cryptic... I wasn't quite sure how you were getting hope from that last text you got from her.

This most recent text that you got from her seems to have a lot more substance to it, and more hope to go with it.

Good luck to you. I'll be rooting for positive things to happen for you and your wife.

ETA: Edited to add - absolutely no apologies necessary.

[This message edited by LosferWords at 3:21 PM, August 14th (Wednesday)]


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