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DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 9:45 AM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have come to expect that when shit hits the fan it's going to be a total shit storm!  Today sucks...

Warning. TMI:
#1.  Wh wanted sex last night.  Fine.  Condom being used, comes off as he finishes. FML. Wh has been talking for months about having another child.   I haven't felt ready or of its even what I want.  Now it I might have no choice.

#2.  Check bank account. Wh is shorted on his pay. Not what we needed this week!!!

#3. Wh gets notice at work that the company is closing so many locations across the province. Dont know if his is on the chopping block or not. Seriously!?!

#4.  Cell company settled with me on the account so we could transfer IL's phones off our plan.  I was told it would bring us "up to date".  Apparently not... Got notice that our service would be suspended unless it's all paid...now. (three months worth that weren't included in settlement).  Was told "sorry the other person didn't tell you but to bad need payment today".  Owell.  I'll be back in a few months. Maybe lol

#5.  Went to post this and my phone shut off...then turned back on. iPhone's are funny that way...

On the bright side it's a beautiful sunny day.  I'm going to go work in the garden while the kids play.  


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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay for beautiful sunny day!!!!


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 10:02 AM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well I have been looking at the "bright" side.

Another baby. Not totally horrible. Don't look forward to nine months of throwing up but hey, I lost 50lbs the first time, 20lbs the second. Weight loss here I come. I also had a visit to my OB/GYN about some issues and was given the all clear...

Lack of pay. Typical! Cash office person isn't the brightest light bulb! But I accounted for being short this week due to a extra insurance payment. So, really...it's not so bad. Just hope they put the missed day on his next pay.

Wh has been looking at changing jobs and even if his place closes he is still high enough thy he can move to another location.

Cells. Owell I have given up hope that we will ever get ahead on this one...rent and hydro are just more
Important.

So yes. It's a nice sunny day.


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DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is it likely that one can get pregnant at the end of their period?

I can see myself being stressed out enough about being pregnant that I skip my next period...

And with dd we not only used condoms but I was on Bc and we were using other contraceptives when we got pregnant. Ugh!


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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 1:42 PM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((DH))))

Sounds like a lot. Remember though everything happens for a reason.

Not very likely to get pregnant at the end of a period, IF your cycles are reliable. If they are not every so many days, then all bets are off. I was like you when it came time to get pregnant. We said ok lets try next month, it rolled around, and we had unprotected sex 1 time....Yup pregnant, second time around we agreed that we would try, unprotected sex 2 times that month, yup kiddo number two.

If you aren't ready to get preggers get yourself some spermacide foam, for the yikes moments like last night.

Try not to stress over it though. If it happens it was meant to be.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

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DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 1:51 PM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was just taken back by everything all happening this morning (and last night).

I figure something will come out of all the stress. Like wh says, never a dull moment.

We used spermacide when dd was
conceived.

There's just to many issues surrounding having a baby... If its done it's done but man is it goin to be an interesting nine months...


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Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can see myself being stressed out enough about being pregnant that I skip my next period...

As I understand it, stress delays ovulation, not your period. So if you have already ovulated, you probably aren't pregnant and all the stress in the world won't keep that period from coming on time. If you haven't ovulated, then stressing out might delay ovulation and subsequently delay your period.


“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

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DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 2:47 PM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have never been "normal" in that department. Doc wasn't even sure I could get prego to begin with. Proved him wrong twice lol.

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DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 4:27 PM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I also broke a tooth ugh! When I had braces the two top back molars developed cavities under the metal. They couldn't see the cavity even though I complained that both hurt.

So braces came off, both back molars got fillings.

Since then the fillings have come out twice. This last time so did part of the tooth. Ugh!

It doesn't hurt which is good but my dentist is on holidays and the other guy I used to go to is doctor jeckle (sp?) so I'll just chew on the other side for now. That and it usually takes a ton of gas to get me calm enough to do work on my teeth. (36 year old scaredy cat here).

On top, my parents arrived to tell me some not so good news about extended family attempting to take over my aunts property...provincial police have been involved since there was a theft from the property already. Geez.

Well today has sucked. But that's what I get for staying in my pj's all day lol.

Tomorrow will be a better day I'm sure. I plan on getting dressed


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((hugs))))


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks Hugs are always welcome.

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 6:32 PM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Dragn)) I'd be sucking on a wine bottle by now if I had that kind of day...

You're tougher than I am!


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sad thing is my mom just gave me a bottle of her Apple wine and I can't touch it until I know I'm not prego. Waaaaaaaaaa.

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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wine is fine until you know you are pregnant. The little bunch of cells exist on their own nutrient supply up to about 30 days. That's why so many women have normal babies after a night of drunken sex.
So you should be good to go.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

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