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User Topic: Fumes are no longer an issue--I was fired
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm staying. I really like it here; it's very close to where I grew up-in the summers. I've always wanted to live here.

Another relief is not working the hours they expected--but neglected to tell me about. 9am-6pm with no lunch break--you eat at your desk. And 10 months out of the year I'd be working Saturdays too. Jeez.


I promise to surround myself with amazing souls and love them fiercely.

Posts: 19154 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yikes. What a bunch of jagoff s.

I'll send corgi mojo!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7006 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I promise to surround myself with amazing souls and love them fiercely.

Posts: 19154 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 8:25 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

oh Sad I'm so sorry.
I'm so upset for you. You deserve better than this.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 8:27 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you. Despite what they said, I really am a good office manager. I'll never be a sparkler, but I'm great with back office stuff.


I promise to surround myself with amazing souls and love them fiercely.

Posts: 19154 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 9:49 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Insane. Total insanity.

I'm so very sorry.

(((Sad)))

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21009 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
gma56
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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow !!
After you moving and they act like this !!
I hope you get a job with their competition.
Then help new company increase sales 100% in a year.
I have no idea what field they're in but if anyone needs a karma stop, it's them.
Hugs and mojo for fast employment !
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. I lost my family but gained a second chance to be happy.

Posts: 20275 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
cmego
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Default  Posted: 9:54 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can you file for unemployment?

Craziness.


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, separated 3 years, together 17
Alis volat propriis "She flies with her own wings"
separated 1/2011

Posts: 3593 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Virginia
feelsgaslighted
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Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am sorry you had to deal with people like that :( Sending mojo your way!


Not all who wander are aimless. Especially not those who seek truth beyond tradition, beyond definition, beyond the image.
Betty Warren- Mona Lisa Smile

Posts: 259 | Registered: Apr 2008 | From: South
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow. They sound NUTS!!

(((sad)))


Posts: 10929 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: North Carolina
Too_Trusting
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Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WOW. I'm just floored. What asshats.

I can tell you, though, after spending nearly 5 years working for someone that will NEVER be pleased myself, I agree with the other poster that said they did you a favor. 5 years of this shit put me in a VERY bad emotional place. I truly wouldn't want that for you.

Hugs and MOJO coming for you to find a FANTASTIC opportunity and they can just F-off.


"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

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hurtbs
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Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry Sad. That sucks.


Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays - 1 was too many
Divorced 2012

"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid


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Pentup
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Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you better job quick mojo. That does suck. It would be worse if you ended up with heart, lung or brain damage from the carbon monoxide. All real possibilities of carbon monoxide poisoning long term. I am glad you like the area.


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

Posts: 6222 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Not Oz
jadedangel
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Default  Posted: 10:13 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How can they not allow you a lunch break? Sure, eating at your desk is not denying you a meal but it is not a break.


DDay: I can't remember but there were more than one

Divorced 06/2007

EXWH passed away 8/31/2011


Posts: 420 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: AL
persevere
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Default  Posted: 10:27 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is craziness!!! I'm so sorry lady - you deserve better, but I will say, although it's far from ideal, they are obviously not a good fit for you, or well, for any sane person! ((Hugs)) Something will come up soon!


Me: BW-43
Him: XWH-43
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4160 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 10:36 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ugh! Gah! (((Sazzy)))


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
Celebrating 60 years on Earth

Posts: 16624 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 10:50 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Sad))))) I'm so sorry. It sounds like they weren't treating you well. Hopefully this means that a door is opening to meet much nicer people who appreciate the hard work you do.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.

Posts: 3761 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
willow60
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Default  Posted: 11:08 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry, Sad

I hope you quickly find a wonderful employer that deserves you!


Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead....Adele

Posts: 960 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Upstate NY
yewtree
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Default  Posted: 11:49 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry they treated you so badly. You are better off! Here's to your next new beginning!


Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 -
No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.


Posts: 4559 | Registered: Oct 2007
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 5:56 AM, August 17th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry. Do you have grounds for any legal action? Did you get a severance at all or did they just turn you loose? I thought there were laws prohibiting stuff like this.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


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