My knight in shining armor turned out to be nothing more than a little boy playing dress-up.
BS 26, WS 29. D after D-Day#2, False R, M, and a lot of regret. Hate that douche.
It's all about them, These guys are guilty of a lot more than infidelity. They are manipulators and cowards.
What kind of moral callousness flows through another human being’s blood to actually want to put someone else through such tortuous pain?
Rewrote our marriage into a bad one to justify his lack of boundaries and then defended his and OW's actions to me and yelled at me.
Now if confronted, tries to minimize or catch me at something he can discredit me for.
The ultimate was when we woke up several times and he was gone, snuck out in the middle of the night and we know to where. His own wife and child, abandoned.
You know, before he snuck out the first time, he even pulled the snuggling and "I love you's" before he shut out the lights and destroyed our lives.
How could someone look someone in the eye and say those three words, in our marital bed, and know what he was going to do, at the same time?
I'm glad that you're in an anger phase-it's not healthy either, but there's fuel in it, isn't there?
The only thing that stays the same, is change. -M. Etheridge