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User Topic: Oh snap, he just got served
tesla
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Default  Posted: 8:13 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

and here comes the bullying:

I received from your lawyer the summons to court. my tax return check was a little over $X,000 after paying the state of Indiana. I will provide you a copy when you pick up Teslet. The $Y,000 (half the above amount)was already paid to you in the direct deposits in our joint account. my records indicate that you're actually overpaid by several thousand dollars. please sit down and do the math and think it over carefully. if I have to counter sue to reclaim the money that was overpaid it's only going to hurt Teslet and I don't want that. I assumed you would have figured that all that money would have gone towards the tax return since it is well in excess of what you're owed. if it goes to court you're just going to end up owing me money.

Bitch, please.
The joint account has been closed since February. Any direct deposits received before that time and after the D counted towards CS.
Deposits made before the D was finalized have no bearing on this matter.
Deposits made to the state for CS are for CS and have no bearing on this matter.
Checks received for tuition are for tuition and have no bearing on this matter.

You will owe me half of the federal tax return. Not half AFTER you paid Indiana. I had it specifically written into the decree that way because I knew you would try that.
You will also owe my L her fees on this matter because you are a stupid piece of shit.
I do not fight a battle unless I know that I'm going to win. So puleeeeese, bring your 'records' into court...because I am going to enjoy this.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4618 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 8:15 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

getting my popcorn, taking my seat on the couch.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12146 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
tesla
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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh shit, he is pissed.
Obviously I'm crickets to his dumbass and he just sent this:

If you choose to drop it I'll cover any reasonable attorney fees you've incurred. But if I have to hire a lawyer I will not hold him back like I did with the divorce settlement...I have been generous to a fault, even to the befuddlement of my former lawyer...please don't make me do this. I want only the best for my son, but your vindictivenes has grown tiresome and I won't indulge it any longer.

Wow. He's so motherfucking generous.

And extra points for the use of 'befuddlement'...did ya get stripper whore a word of the day calendar? And...uh...yeah, I don't even care.
Bring it, bitch.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4618 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ETA: ok, happy popcorn was killing the page specs. here's his smaller cousin

[This message edited by nowiknow23 at 8:51 PM, August 16th (Friday)]


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes - I know it's huge. But there are a lot of us sitting in the stands watching this one.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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hellzapoppin
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Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMFG

this brought me out of lurkdom

befuddlemont of his lawyer

hahahaha

what a tool


Him-WH
Me - BW
M 21 years
Divorced by stealth

Posts: 1310 | Registered: Oct 2004
gma56
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Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

But if I have to hire a lawyer I will not hold him back like I did with the divorce settlement...I have been generous to a fault, even to the befuddlement of my former lawyer...please don't make me do this. I want only the best for my son, but your vindictivenes has grown tiresome and I won't indulge it any longer
A threat too? Yeah, he isn't going to like the process.
You don't have to be vindictive, the law will handle his self entitlement.
He is an insult to all men.


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20370 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
Housefulloflove
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Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

But if I have to hire a lawyer I will not hold him back like I did with the divorce settlement...

Is that what he tells himself to sooth his bruised ego?

I have been generous to a fault, even to the befuddlement of my former lawyer...

What a beautiful fantasy world he has created in his head. He is such a good guy there! The best and most generous guy around. Too bad that guy is a big flaming pile o' shit in reality. I like how he uses the lawyer who is PAID to be on his side as a character witness.

please don't make me do this.

I bet he felt like the Hulk for a moment. "Don't make me angry. You wouldn't like me when I'm angry."

I want only the best for my son

Who knew that "the best" was cheating on his son's mother and starting a new family with the whore he used to destroy his son's family. Hmmm..."the best" sure is different on his planet.

but your vindictivenes has grown tiresome and I won't indulge it any longer.

Uh oh Tesla...your life on Easy St is over. He has done so much to make you happy, give your son "the best" and indulge you. I never knew that adultery was so altruistic!

After all he has done to indulge you this is what you do Tesla? You must have really disturbed his life in fantasy-land, a land where "indulge" has a totally different meaning. I'm guessing that the definition of *vindictive* is "anything that brings him back to reality.


Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013

Posts: 541 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:52 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just a thought - can you amend the summons to include Mosley? 'Cuz that would be GOLDEN.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 9:05 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh snap, he just got served

I'm pretty sure that it's stated somewhere in the bylaws that he is now obligated to participate in a dance off.


Posts: 1675 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
peridot
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Default  Posted: 9:07 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He must have been indulging you when he broke into your home and stole his son's dog.

I feel a reality check coming soon for him.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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CheaterMagnet
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Default  Posted: 9:10 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm pretty sure that it's stated somewhere in the bylaws that he is now obligated to participate in a dance off.


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

Posts: 1029 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Kailua-Kona, HI
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 9:15 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pass the popcorn please.

Tesla, he hasn't asked a question-no need to answer.

Hugs,
K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5061 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
dmari
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Default  Posted: 9:39 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, I'm loving it!! Is he serious? For real? Bring it! He is waiting for you to take your "door mat" pill. I've got my popcorn. Crickets to him ~ let him shit bricks.


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 10:07 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Late to the party, is there any popcorn left??

I have NEVER heard of indulging vindictiveness. What a verbal magician he is.

This will be so much fun.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5804 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:18 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm pretty sure that it's stated somewhere in the bylaws that he is now obligated to participate in a dance off.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25259 | Registered: Aug 2011
newlysingle
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Default  Posted: 10:20 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This should be interesting. Yes, it's hilarious that he feels he's been indulging you all this time and working in his son's best interests.


BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

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FirstLoveGone
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Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good god, his texts slightly triggered me. He sounds exactly like my XH can sound at times.

What a fucking POS. Does he really think you would take something to court without knowing for sure that you would win?

I hope he gets his sorry ass skewered in court.

And what in the hell does any of this have to do with Teslet!? Why even bring his name into this!?

God, I hate him for you.

[This message edited by FirstLoveGone at 10:23 PM, August 16th (Friday)]


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CharlieFoxtrot
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Default  Posted: 10:47 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just a thought - can you amend the summons to include Mosley? 'Cuz that would be GOLDEN.

I second the motion!

Didn't the *befuddled* lawyer quit? As in, I'm not representing this asshole quit?

I truly admire you. I don't think I could "crickets" this, I am super impressed.


Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.

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clralb
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Default  Posted: 11:18 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ehhh!!!


your vindictivenes has grown tiresome and I won't indulge it any longer

LOL! I heard the same thing from my ex.

What a pompous, condescending asshole!

"Grown tiresome"?

Fuck you, you cowardly little prick!

He's an insult to the entire human race. Hell, he's an insult to the tiniest little bacteria on the face of the earth. Fucker.


BS Divorced.

They were right about you.


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