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User Topic: Oh snap, he just got served
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 11:55 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Really? He won't indulge you your right to seek the settlement you have already been ordered but he had no issue indulging his own ego and wants by having his A? Well FTG!!!!


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1721 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
tesla
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Default  Posted: 12:19 AM, August 17th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The befuddled lawyer did quit. Anyone who represents him and tells him that he has a case will be stealing his money.

There is nothing but crickets from me going forward. What is there to say to this fool?

As to Mosley...I'm giving very serious consideration to reducing the amount he owes me if he returns Mosley. I highly doubt he will do it because it is the one thing that I want and he will not give it to me. I could forgive him the whole amount (and I'm not because it is too large a sum of money) and he wouldn't give me Mosley. He's just that kind of whiny bitch.

Here is how I predict this will go down: He'll cool off and realize that he can't get out of paying me my half. So he'll indulge me--be the bigger man--do the right thing for his son and write the check out to his vindictive bitch of an ex-wife.

He will get lots of reassuring blow jobs from stripper whore.

Which will be a win for both of us. I get my money and he gets to continue on in fantasy land.

I can't get lucky enough for this to actually go to court.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4610 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
gma56
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Default  Posted: 12:24 AM, August 17th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I could forgive him the whole amount (and I'm not because it is too large a sum of money) and he wouldn't give me Mosley. He's just that kind of whiny bitch.
That is the definition of NPD !


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20366 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
SBB
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Default  Posted: 1:06 AM, August 17th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm pretty sure that it's stated somewhere in the bylaws that he is now obligated to participate in a dance off.

If he does do it it won't be because he wants to do the right thing, be the bigger man or for his son. It will be because his half a brain cell has rubbed up against something else soft inside his head and registered that there is nothing to fight here. It is in the decree and he's only costing himself more money in his/your attorney fees.

I do kind of hope his half a brain cell doesn't bump into anything and that he helps your lawyer and his add a wing to their condos.

But I'd much prefer he just does it so you don't have to interact with him even legally.

Fuck....That....Guy....


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 1:25 AM, August 17th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He's sooo generous, Tesla, how can you not take him up on this offer?!

After all, you're OBVIOUSLY wrong, but he's so generous he'll pay your attorney fees if you agree to drop the lawsuit.
Seems legit.


Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4yrs, together 7yrs total

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids (4 Dogs, 2 Cats)

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

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Posts: 6356 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 5:27 AM, August 17th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jagoff. Loser. Whiny bitch.

The trifecta of asshattery, it seems.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7543 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
NoTriangles
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Default  Posted: 6:11 AM, August 17th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Umm, does he not get that yourlawyers has already "done the math" before she filed suit??

What a bullying douche canoe.

FTG!


Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

Posts: 1251 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: a state of consciousness
Whalers11
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Default  Posted: 7:03 AM, August 17th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Crickets.


Me: BGF - 33
Together 11+ years - not married, no children.
D-Day: 2/9/2010
OC Born: 10/9/2010
Status: He chose OW/OC and left immediately.

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Beyond
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Default  Posted: 12:36 PM, August 17th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Interesting that he knows what "befuddled" means, but doesn't know what "generous" means.


XOW.

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Housefulloflove
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Default  Posted: 1:37 PM, August 17th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Interesting that he knows what "befuddled" means, but doesn't know what "generous" means.

It appears he doesn't know what "indulge" or "vindictive" mean either.

Tesla- perhaps you could send him a dictionary as a thank you present. It's the least you could do since he has done so much for you.


Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013

Posts: 541 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
Helen of Troy
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Default  Posted: 1:46 PM, August 17th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

... if it goes to court you're just going to end up owing me money.

Then bring it on! I seriously doubt his interest here is one of altruism toward Tesla.


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solus sto
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Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, August 17th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

His douchebaggery has grown wearisome.

(Did I make that sound as impressive as he thinks he sounds? I tried, yanno.)


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WH (Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
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Posts: 8545 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 5:45 PM, August 17th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

First of all, his texts sound exactly like the bullying texts that I receive from my ex when he doesn't get his way.

Second, I would definitely try to see if you could take a lesser amount, in exchange for Mosley


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3303 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
AppleBlossom
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Default  Posted: 9:49 PM, August 17th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Personally, I rub my hands with glee when my ex is a fuckwit. It makes it so much easier for me to be superior and laugh at him.

You clearly have his measure, Tesla. I cant wait to hear about him leaving court with his tail between his legs.


Posts: 154 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Australia
tesla
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Default  Posted: 5:50 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

More bullying. Received this early this am. So happy I put his texts and calls on silent.


Check with your lawyer, I faxed my tax returns to her firm. I will email them tomorrow copies of the deposits I made which I believe but will confirm shortly is well in excess of the entirety of the tax return. I will lawyer up in 3 days unless you turn from this nonsnse...I will require confirmation from your lawyer.

...unless I've turned from this nonsense...
FTG

[This message edited by tesla at 5:57 AM, August 19th (Monday)]


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4610 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 6:07 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maybe he really is confused on what he was supposed to pay.

I say this because, in our D decree it states no over nights with lover/paramours, and I get the first right of refusal. So, XWH spent the night with OW with our son there, then left son with Ow and went to work. HELLO!!!! When I emailed him he said since they had been together 3 years it was ok. WTH?

He had to leave work to go bring child to me.


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

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tesla
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Default  Posted: 6:19 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think he sincerely believes that the money he deposited into our joint account BEFORE we had a D settlement should count to offset this tax return. Or, he is thinking that the money he deposited from post D till I closed the joint checking account should count towards paying the tax return. (But that was counted towards CS).

I'll be interested to see what he faxes and emails over. I'm not worried about it...I have a good lawyer...he is clearly the one worked up about it.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4610 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
SBB
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Default  Posted: 7:09 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What he doesn't seem to understand is you're trying to follow the decree - not fuck him over. Y'know - the decree he signed and 'lawyered up' for last time. One of the ones that quit? Remember him asshat?

A free consultation with an L would give him all the answers he needs in the great CS vs Tax Return mystery.

What does your L say about his chances if he does fight this? Because you just know he's going to try.

What a schoolyard bully. I hope he pays costs for this 'nonsense' he is pulling.

Don't offer for Mosley. Lets see if his pea brain comes up with that one all by its little self. No need for him to know that that 'give a fuck' isn't yet broken.


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

Posts: 5533 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
trumanshow
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Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

my x's lawyer was allegedly befuddled by his "generosity" too.


when facts that she wasn't told came out at his deposition-she was not pleased!


Your ex wanting to be friends is like asking a kidnapper to stay in touch when they let you go.

The type of fierce loyalty that I possess made me incapable of comprehending the level of disloyalty that he possessed


Posts: 1745 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Charlotte, NC
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think he sincerely believes that the money he deposited into our joint account BEFORE we had a D settlement should count to offset this tax return. Or, he is thinking that the money he deposited from post D till I closed the joint checking account should count towards paying the tax return.

I agree with this. He doesn't seem to understand that his overpayments don't count as pre-payments. He's kind of too stupid to read up on what's legal.


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