Ex used to hit on me..up until last year...when I put my foot down. I told him I would tell his boyfriend
His response, "Well, that is how I've always treated you!" My response was, "Treat me as you would one of your employees." He said, "but...but...you aren't one of my employees!!" After I threatened to video it and send it to B, he stopped.
I found out over the weekend that Ex and his SIL had a long talk about me...and I think that is where the guilt is coming from. She reminded him how difficult my life is because of his choices. Great, yeah...I'm headed to grad school...but it isn't because I wanted to. It is because I have to.
I'll take the help any way I can get it. I'm having it added as an addendum to our PSA so there is no way out.
I tell people I just look cute and innocent. me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings