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User Topic: Best wedding gift for "older" couple?
devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My BFF is getting married in September. It's also her birthday on the wedding day. Her kids are grown, she's moved into his house which needs some renovations, his kids live with their mom, they have most things, but of course could use some upgrades. I know the next reno is the kitchen.

What is the best wedding gift when you are looking at those of us marrying again over 40/50?


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 6:33 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gift cards: Home Depot/Lowes/Restoration Hardware/etc.


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

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hurtbs
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Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gift card for home depot or ikea? Cold hard cash?

Do they have a registry? Always use the registry.


Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays 2006, and then numerous more
Divorced 2012

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devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No, she doesn't have a registry. She decided that was silly at her age.


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5429 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 7:57 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ditto Sad!


Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - R looks possible..

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

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fireproof
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Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am not a cook but maybe center the gift around something they enjoy. Possibly a Panini maker or a Keurig.
The other suggestions would be a gift card to their favorite spot because their kitchen will be under renovation. Tickets to a performance. Good luck!

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