Cheating Hurt by Infidelity
Betrayal Wayward Donations lying
Welcome

Forums

Guidelines

Find a Local Counselor

The Healing Library

Media

Contact Us
lies
cover
In Association with Amazon.com
Support
Infidelity -
-
like us on facebook
You are not logged in. Login here or register.
[Register]
Newest Member: feistyfiona (44934)

New Beginnings Post Reply     Print Topic    
User Topic: I finally have enough in my retirement account
hexed
♀ Member
Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

to retire for 1 week!!!!!!

Ok -- I'm secretly pleased as punch with my self but the big picture is a little daunting.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8440 | Registered: Apr 2008
nowiknow23
♀ Guide
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:28 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay you!!!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25316 | Registered: Aug 2011
Bloomsday
♂ Member
Member # 40275
Default  Posted: 9:39 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Make it the week they set the clocks back. It's like getting a raise.

Posts: 55 | Registered: Aug 2013
GabyBaby
♀ Member
Member # 26928
Default  Posted: 9:42 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Make it the week they set the clocks back. It's like getting a raise.


Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - ??

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6442 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
caregiver9000
♀ Member
Member # 28622
Default  Posted: 9:49 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are funny. I was insanely jealous, for about 7 seconds.

Retirement.... sigh.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5818 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
hexed
♀ Member
Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

i'm going to have unearth a rich relative if i'm ever going to retire but I keep trying. hey last year I saved enough to retire for 30 minutes so progress is being made.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8440 | Registered: Apr 2008
caregiver9000
♀ Member
Member # 28622
Default  Posted: 10:27 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Digging up bodies in hopes of finding retirement money is kinda creepy hexed...


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5818 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
hexed
♀ Member
Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 10:42 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey sometimes a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8440 | Registered: Apr 2008
Amazonia
♀ Member
Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 8:30 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good job hexed!!! You are firmly in the right direction.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13738 | Registered: Jul 2011
cmego
♀ Member
Member # 30346
Default  Posted: 9:10 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I try not to think that I won't start working until I'm 45. I should be able to save quickly, though.


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4141 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
Newlease
♀ Member
Member # 7767
Default  Posted: 9:34 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Best thing I ever did was start my own retirement account. I started it when I went back to work after my sons were in school. I didn't put a lot in it at first, but I kept plugging away.

Then when I got D, I told XWH that we should both keep our individual retirement accounts. He readily agreed because he didn't realize I had more in mine than he did in his. I did my homework!

Good for you hexed - you will get there!

NL


Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.

Posts: 7690 | Registered: Aug 2005
Topic Posts: 11

Return to Forum: New Beginnings Post Reply to this Topic
adultry
Go to :
madness  
© 2002 - 2014 SurvivingInfidelity.com. All Rights Reserved.