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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good to feel a bit more empowered, huh?

I think I didn't explain myself very well. I just meant that we hope that the next one is the right one, but it is only when we stop expecting/hoping that the next one to be/is the right one that the right one comes along. There! Have I succeeded in making my explanation murkier? LOL


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7166 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 1:16 PM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree....and my life just seems to be all crazy right now that I even wonder if I should even be trying to date to be honest!

I'm seriously considering taking a hiatus for a little while....


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2716 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 7:14 PM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Rejection is a part of life and I learned from this experience that it is "okay" and that I will be okay! I'm going to be going into future dates a little smarter and a little more emotionally prepared and try to just enjoy them "one at a time!"

It sounds like you are reflecting and learning. It is great to know you can handle rejection. In a weird way it is a 'gift' even tho it feels bad. It's just that it is so liberating to know that rejection is not only survivable but that you are thriving and experiencing a rich life WITHOUT male affirmation.


BS, age 53, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years and 20 together. dating again, living in the sticks with a cat. It's taking a long time to create new dreams and a new life but it is slowly coming together.

Posts: 5784 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 7:34 PM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's very true InnerLight....

I'm actually even contemplating taking a break from online dating for a while. I don't need a man to have a good life.... my daughter keeps me plenty busy plus I am marathon training right now! I run my 3rd marathon at the end of October!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2716 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
Take2
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Default  Posted: 9:05 PM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

just found this and thought perfect!

[This message edited by Take2 at 9:08 PM, August 29th (Thursday)]


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

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