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User Topic: Something we said would never happen
stupidstupidme
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Default  Posted: 3:31 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I met his friend. We agreed a long time ago we'd never go there with friends or family.

He brought him to pick up an old couch for me. I told him he didn't need to, and I could easily help lift it, but he brought him anyway. We discussed - I said I didn't think he'd be comfortable doing that, and he laughed and said "why wouldn't I want you to meet my friends?" I definitely thought he'd be embarrassed...

Oddly enough, I liked him too. That surprised me. He was quiet and shy, very polite, and though I already knew "he" makes me laugh, the two of them together was hilarious. They were at my house a total of 2.5 hours, and we had fun... they were helping move a ton of furniture, but still fun.

Weird stuff going on here. I like it.


Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:40 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Weird can be very good.


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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 3:42 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Baby steps.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
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Posts: 7648 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
stupidstupidme
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Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Weird can be good and.... weird means DIFFERENT, and ya know... I think different is good for me.

In a good place with this, even though I know that to many others, it would seem really dysfunctional. I have no idea how it will end, although I'm sure it will at some point. I would say that's the only thing that bothers me sometimes - I am extremely analytical and I think about that a lot. I care and he cares, but it just can't go anywhere or be long term... well a year so far - I guess it could be long term, but not too serious. It just would never work... so I think it will hurt at some point (endings always hurt for someone though, don't they), but I try to just take it for what it is NOW - and it's ok... Not perfect, but good


Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson

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