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hexed
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Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

my X and I have had the paperwork drafted for our D for a long time. We couldn't file the final papers b/c part of our final agreement involved him keeping me on health ins for 5 years.

The time had come in June. Some minor corrections were needed to the papers. Those are done. We're meeting at the notary on Thursday to sign everything and then its official.

Thursday is OW's bday.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:07 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 10:19 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bazingah!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17131 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
exhausted lady
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Default  Posted: 12:52 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AND.....freedom, here you come! WooHoo!!!


Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr


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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 7:07 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Poetic justice - you can have him, OW! Happy birthday!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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hexed
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Default  Posted: 8:05 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just think its funny that I'm spending part of her birthday with him. she will be wicked pissed off.

i was thinking about sending her a copy of them with a birthday card. i won't. but i thought it.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nice.

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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DS - 31 - Yikes!


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homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 8:29 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

FYI I was told that once D was final, due to the new health care law, I could stay on his health insurance thru Cobra for 3 years --AT THE RATE THE COMPANY IS PAYING. So, I have vision, dental, health for 248/mo for 3 years.


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

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hexed
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Default  Posted: 9:45 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

HW -- that would've been great but still hundreds every month. This was also 5 years ago. It worked out fine for us. We didn't have contentious negotiations. It saved us both on taxes. It equaled out to what I would've received from his retirement. He has EXCELLENT health insurance so it was great.

Mostly we get along fine so this wasn't a big deal for me. Now OW who has dumped X numerous times b/c he 1) can't be trusted (no shit really?) 2) doesn't do what he she says 3) wouldn't finalize the D early with me b/c it would be costly 4) b/c X and I aren't hostile enough anymore I guess it is a big deal to her.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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stillstrong
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Default  Posted: 10:29 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just think its funny that I'm spending part of her birthday with him. she will be wicked pissed off.

Haha! Perfect! Maybe you can go out for a drink or lunch afterwards to celebrate your divorce together.


Me BS 47
Him WS 51
DDay LTA Feb 21, 2006
R until DDay 2EA's 1/31/12 ONS 2/5/12 Broken NC 7/12/12
Moved out 9/12
Legally Separated 3/13


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hexed
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Default  Posted: 11:57 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SS

We're going to. His idea since I'm paying the filing fees.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Be sure to text him at bedtime about how awesome lunch was and how glad you are to be getting along so well going forward.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17131 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
hexed
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Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's genius FF!!

I know she snoops through his phone. its such a healthy relationship


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8405 | Registered: Apr 2008
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sweet. I think it is a perfect plan to celebrate a divorce and drive an OW crazy at the same time.

She sure does have a prize for her birthday... Cracker Jack prize!


Me: 43, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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