Krazy-Other than the oral sex and sex outside once he told me their sex wasn't anything special either. It's the pics/vids that they started with, telling themselves it was harmless. I absolutely would've done something like that if you ever asked me but he didn't.
And I hate the term EA Because I really feel the only emotion that went into their affair before the physical aspect of it started was lust. When he did finally think he was in love with her I think honestly he just used that as a way to take it to the physical level.
MediumRare-I saw your post after I had made this one. Thank you for the words of wisdom and the male perspective. I appreciate you taking the time to point these things out to me, it really helps