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User Topic: Trying things WS did with AP?
AML04
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Default  Posted: 1:25 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Redrock-thank you!!!!!

Krazy-Other than the oral sex and sex outside once he told me their sex wasn't anything special either. It's the pics/vids that they started with, telling themselves it was harmless. I absolutely would've done something like that if you ever asked me but he didn't.
And I hate the term EA Because I really feel the only emotion that went into their affair before the physical aspect of it started was lust. When he did finally think he was in love with her I think honestly he just used that as a way to take it to the physical level.

Eta:

MediumRare-I saw your post after I had made this one. Thank you for the words of wisdom and the male perspective. I appreciate you taking the time to point these things out to me, it really helps

[This message edited by AML04 at 1:33 PM, August 20th (Tuesday)]


Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
Met 2000, Married 2004
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13
Hopeful for R

Posts: 875 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: MA
SecondHelping
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Default  Posted: 4:03 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Learn to stop letting the crap that they did get in your head.

Somebody help me figure out how to do this. PLEASE!!


D-Day 1: Feb 1990
D-Day 2: 3 Sep 2012 (3 month EA/3 week PA)
BS 49, fWW 43 (Amibroken)
OP- Police Chief (Age 37)
M 25 Yrs, 3 Kids (17, 14, 11)
I initated the relationship at the Railway Tavern, she tried to end it at Scrap Tavern

Posts: 489 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Delmarva
MsRukia
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Default  Posted: 4:38 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Long story, I was coming into my own as far as sex and my drive. In between his PA (still was in an EA) and DDay I was going to counseling, and we were doing a lot of work. I'd have to say I was getting pretty amazing in bed at that point. He admitted that my work on my end is one of the reasons he was able to stop the physical portion of his affair. Anyways, he kept bugging me about BJ's. I have struggled with this in the past. Well that was one thing she did really well and he was able to come. I will not do another BJ again. I won't compete with that. Just not going to. Thankfully, it seems that everything else as far as their sex was lackluster. He said it wasn't as exciting or as amazing as he had imagined it would be. So ha on him! The sex he got, he is learning, was so not worth the heartache!


I say enjoy what your doing.

Ultimately, only you can know what you are comfortable with or not.


BS (34)
WS MisterP (37)
Together 14 1/2 years
D Day 03 Aug 13 EA & PA
D Day #2 01 Sep 13 continued EA & PA with OW
Slowly but surely finding my way.

Posts: 172 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Colorado Springs
AML04
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Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Way to go MsRukia! Love that story!


Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
Met 2000, Married 2004
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13
Hopeful for R

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