DDay - June 2013, A was 2+ months
In MC & Reconciling
Global editing disclaimer - I edit almost everything I post, and I am not going to post why every time. ; )
Every BS and WS could benefit but the folks who really need to read it probably won't. That would be everybody tempted to go off the rails, get married, or get out of bed in the morning.
[This message edited by MoreWould at 11:47 AM, August 24th (Saturday)]
Married 37 yrs/4 grown children, 5 grandchildren
DD's-10/75; 10/80; 09/92; 12/09; 12/10; 03/11...more?
Or we could name it the much less subtle, "Don't F-ing Cheat, Dumbass!"
They go to IC, MC, get 180'd, spend countless hours of their days reading an online forum for those affected by infidelity, work on their whys, write their timelines, become emotionally available, avoid any TT etc.
Only after all of this, and continuous work might they have a chance of becoming a non-zombie again. Possibly even a better, more authentic human.
"Not Worth It!"