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User Topic: My best friend lost her cancer battle yesterday
stroppy_wanadoo
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Default  Posted: 8:51 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And I am so incredibly angry. And sad and lost, but anger is the biggest emotion right now. She was only 40.

I don't quite know what to do with myself. But I am so, so glad her pain has ended. I miss and love you Stacy, forever.

[This message edited by stroppy_wanadoo at 8:52 AM, August 20th (Tuesday)]


Posts: 1033 | Registered: Jul 2006
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 8:53 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((stroppy)))

I am sorry for the loss of your friend.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52199 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:53 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((stroppy)))

I am so sorry for your loss.


Posts: 35201 | Registered: Mar 2011
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:56 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((stroppy & friend's loved ones))))

I'm so very sorry, honey.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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movingforward777
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Default  Posted: 11:06 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very sorry to hear of your loss...HUGS


You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith

Posts: 4841 | Registered: Apr 2005 | From: Ontario
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 11:09 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((( stroppy )))


Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - ??

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6443 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 11:10 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((stroppy)))))

So very sorry.

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
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DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21051 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
Grace and Flowers
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Default  Posted: 11:14 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((stroppy)))))

I'm so sorry for your terrible loss.


I'm Happy, not Sad!

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 11:21 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry for your loss

Rest in peace, Stacy.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Jennifer99
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Default  Posted: 11:23 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am SO sorry stroppy :( Hugs for you.

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Tred
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Default  Posted: 11:28 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry to hear of the loss of your best friend.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 11:29 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She was lucky to have friends like you to remember her.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17392 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 12:25 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm very sorry for your loss.


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


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DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 12:27 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So very sorry for your loss.

(((stroppy_wanadoo)))


Posts: 2815 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 12:32 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm very sorry



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 1:47 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Stroppy))))
Find peace in knowing she is no longer in pain.
Celebrate her for who she was before she got sick.

Life is short.

(((and strength)))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8509 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
click4it
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Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((stroppy))))))

SO sorry for your loss. No words can take away the grief you are experiencing. But we are here.


Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

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Posts: 25552 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
willow60
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Default  Posted: 2:04 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((stroppy))))

So sorry for your loss.


Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead....Adele

Posts: 960 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Upstate NY
Skan
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Default  Posted: 9:28 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fuck cancer. I hate it. With a passion. (((hugs))) I am so very, very sorry for your loss. God bless and keep you Stacy, and may your friends and family be comforted. (((more hugs)))


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4804 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 9:29 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry.

(((s_w)))


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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