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Morhurt
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Default  Posted: 5:45 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today I feel strong.

I hate and despise what my husband did. It makes me sick to think of ANY of the details, or the magnitude.

And yet, I love him and he loves me. He is remorseful and caring and honest and true.

I also love my IC. Big time. She rocks!

:)


Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

Posts: 839 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 6:11 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is great!

I am glad you are feeling strong. That is a good sign of healing.

Sounds like you are still acknowledging the pain, yet still moving forward.

A good IC can be very valuable.

Congrats on your first R post, and good luck.


Posts: 4512 | Registered: Dec 2010
Skan
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Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome! May you have many more good posts here!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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Girlietoo
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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Posts like this give me hope. Thank you and best of luck.


Me- 40
Him- 47
March 9, 2013- the day my heart died

Posts: 190 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Canada
Morhurt
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Member # 40166
Default  Posted: 11:45 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had a set back shortly after posting this.

We went to the grocery store, bumped into a mutual (woman) friend and were chatting. I saw another woman that my H knows from the gym. I don't like her. She pays attention to him and it's like I don't exist. Anyway she walked by us and intentionally "bumped" into my H. He said hi to her and turned back to us.

There is nothing between H and this woman. But it still upset me. I ended up writing how I felt about the encounter in an email to H and we discussed it. It feels so much better to talk it out. But man I hate that I need to!

Anyway, my theory on her, and H concurs, is that her behaviour IS inappropriate. She is trying constantly to get H's attention away from me. I'm pretty sure that's her way in general. She's cute and skinny and young(er).

:(. It makes so bummed that some bird brained bimbo can wreck my strong, happy day.


Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

Posts: 839 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
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