I got sidetracked and posted before I was done. :eyeroll:
What I wanted to leave my post with, was that for me, "justice" was my WS realizing the horrible thing he had done and realizing *who* he was doing the horrible thing with.
It also helped me that living in a small town, her and her husband's underground lifestyle was completely outed for what it was. Not to mention she lost *everything* from it too. While they are back in their own reconciliation, they had major debt before they separated; I can't even imagine what debt they have now.
So, for me, I'm getting justice on both ends even though an outsider might not see it that way.