I am just now able to actually focus on me and what I want instead of walking on eggshells around him and watching to debt spiral out of control. The fucktwit kept spending even when unemployed!!
I envy that you were able to get him to take the debt, but I truly don't envy your in house separation. We did that "unofficially" for the past year and it sucks. Him moving thousands of miles away was a godsend, and now I don't have to hide away at the office until late at night just to avoid him. I had forgotten how nice it was to actually come home at a reasonable hour and relax.
Hope you get out of your in house separation soon! Hang in there!
This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man, ~ Shakespeare
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön