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User Topic: A new year
Jennifer99
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Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This time last year WH was using a bike ride with our son as an excuse to look around town for EAP. They'd stop by my work so he could antagonize me, be nasty, and cause me problems.

Today - he spent the morning trying to work out a calendar and planning for a camping trip I want then this afternoon biking to my work with our son and bringing me lunch and a sweet tea. Actually took the time to sit down and chat and be pleasant.

Maybe by this time next year I can stop being suspicious of him being nice.


Posts: 524 | Registered: Jun 2013
krazy8516
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Default  Posted: 3:49 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maybe by this time next year I can stop being suspicious of him being nice.

Haha, wouldn't that be something!

Here's to baby steps


me: BW, 30
him: WH, 25
us: edging closer to R every day

married 2y, together 2.5y
1 beautiful daughter, 23m

"Someday soon, I'm going to put my life together; Win or lose, I'm starting over again."


Posts: 368 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Texas
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 5:24 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

There are shortcuts to happiness, and dancing is one of them-Vicky Baum


Posts: 49750 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 5:50 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I get that.

When fWS does something really nice I'm like "what's your angle?"

I look forward to just being appreciative!


Me: BS 44
Her: fWS 47 (same sex partner)
Together: 17 now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 1855 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
Spelljean
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Member # 35624
Default  Posted: 5:59 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

totally understand where you're coming from!


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
Jennifer99
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Member # 39551
Default  Posted: 6:37 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He wanted $
I am an idiot.

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