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User Topic: I have a date?
click4it
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Default  Posted: 11:35 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How'd that happen?

I haven't had a date or just a "meet for a drink to size up the other person in person" in over a year.

I wasn't expecting to be asked out so fast. There was just a question or two back and forth. Usually I like to talk a lot longer than that before agreeing to meet, but why not talk in person?

Eeeks.


Me: 41
Two boys: 16 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25502 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
ArkLaMiss
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Happy  Posted: 11:53 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Relax! It's only a date. Have fun and please report back asap!


Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

Posts: 1121 | Registered: Jun 2007
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 12:09 AM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Breathe!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
Celebrating 60 years on Earth

Posts: 16634 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 12:27 AM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think it's awesome, clicky! I hope you have a great time.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15279 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Just a Cali girl
She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 7:16 AM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAY!!!! I hope you have a blast! (And please update us!)


"Life's curve balls come out of nowhere.... just remember to duck and weave!"

ME - BW - 34
HIM - XWH - 38
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2442 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
cmego
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Default  Posted: 7:20 AM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have a lot of guys who ask me out in the second email. They just don't like/want to bother with the email chatty stuff.

Usually I tell them I like to chat just a bit before meeting, or ask for their first/last name to google them before agreeing to meet.

Some poof after I ask for their name


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M 15 years, separated 3 years, together 17
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separated 1/2011

Posts: 3615 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Virginia
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 10:49 AM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAY Clicky!!!!!!



AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

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Posts: 49758 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
click4it
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Default  Posted: 2:22 PM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Its not till Tuesday. But I will keep you all posted.

(The cynical part of me says - he will cancel anyway)

I know, I know, stop trying to think so negative.


Me: 41
Two boys: 16 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25502 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 2:52 PM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oooooh I'm EXCITED!!!

I'll try my best not to be a nuisance Wednesday morning.


For last year's words belong to last year's language
And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning. - T.S. Eliot

Posts: 14710 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Too_Trusting
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Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AWESOME clicky! You GO girl! You soooo deserve this. Enjoy!


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Posts: 2368 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: North Carolina
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay for first dates! Have fun, honey.


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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click4it
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Default  Posted: 11:36 PM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here I go wondering...

The last thing I said was "yes, 7pm should work for me."

And then nothing.

And yes, I looked at his profile a few more times to get his details again so I wouldn't be going "blind" to this meet up.

But now I wonder if he thinks damn why does she keep looking at my profile and now changed his mind.

Damn full moons, its making me nutty tonight...


Me: 41
Two boys: 16 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25502 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
click4it
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Default  Posted: 8:52 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WELL, here I am about to head out the door, makeup on and rushed to get dressed and SOMETHING told me to check online to see if there is any last minute messages from him.

And wa-la there is one. He sent me a message online at 3pm saying he is unable to make it tonight due to work and can I meet tomorrow. Good enough reason, however, he had my number (as he gave me his) and could have TEXTED me this information so that I didn't get ready and almost head out the door. What if I hadn't checked online?

So, I politely replied that its a good thing I checked online first before leaving and that I am unavailable tomorrow.

If I didn't rush to feed my son before leaving, I'd just say hey kids lets go eat since I'm ready to go!

Worst feeling when you are all dressed up and nowhere to go. Oh well, time to dress into my PJ's and settle in for the night.

decided to go get a big hot fudge sundae.

don't think anyone is reading my update..maybe that's a good thing.

[This message edited by click4it at 9:56 PM, August 27th (Tuesday)]


Me: 41
Two boys: 16 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25502 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 11:01 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sooooo... How was the sundae?

Xoxo


For last year's words belong to last year's language
And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning. - T.S. Eliot

Posts: 14710 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
click4it
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Default  Posted: 11:14 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

De-lish! I just gained 5lbs.


Me: 41
Two boys: 16 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25502 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 11:41 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good call on the sundae, clickie.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15279 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Just a Cali girl
click4it
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Default  Posted: 11:57 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah you can never go wrong with a sundae. ty wild.


Me: 41
Two boys: 16 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25502 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
ArkLaMiss
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Default  Posted: 12:30 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awwwww, sorry! He's a jerk!


Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

Posts: 1121 | Registered: Jun 2007
click4it
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Default  Posted: 12:38 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

well Ark, I don't know, but I do know he didn't handle the cancellation well.


Me: 41
Two boys: 16 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25502 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
ArkLaMiss
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Default  Posted: 12:43 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, he could've handled it MUCH better than he did, for sure. We women take HOURS agonizing on everything regarding clothes, hairstyle, makeup, shoes, etc. Jeez, how rude of him to flake last minute!


Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

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