Topic: Its over
Member # 38384
| Posted: 1:59 PM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013|
I am sorry Unagie. I hope the peaceful moment you shared last night continues. I just read that good endings make for good beginnings.
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear
Posts: 1582 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
Member # 30877
| Posted: 11:00 PM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013|
Hugs to you.
D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed
Posts: 1203 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: arizona
Member # 28108
| Posted: 12:03 AM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013|
I'm sorry you're hurting. It will get better. One day at a time.
'til the roof comes off. 'til the lights go out. 'til my legs give out, can't shut my mouth
Posts: 6795 | Registered: Mar 2010
Member # 37455
| Posted: 12:12 AM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013|
It hurts and at the same time I'm okay...
I'm sorry for the pain. With everything you have done to grow, with all the lessons you have learned, you are going to be OK.
You are going to be a heck of a formidable woman.
You go girl!!!!
BH 50, WW 41
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 19(Hers),DS 8 Ours, DGS 2 1/2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone
Posts: 1785 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Member # 10552
| Posted: 1:01 AM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013|
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Posts: 15223 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Just a Cali girl
Member # 25341
| Posted: 2:48 AM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013|
I'm sorry ((((Unagie))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...
Posts: 2468 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
Member # 40133
| Posted: 10:24 AM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013|
I am sorry to hear about your loss. It is always a sad thing when it's OVER OVER (like, FOR REAL over).
WH (1DumbHusband): 34
Married 4 years, together 6 years.
D-Day: June 17th, 2013
TTs that came out as late as September 16th, 2013
Posts: 136 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Dallas, TX
Member # 22870
| Posted: 10:29 AM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013|
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 6772 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Member # 36134
| Posted: 9:52 AM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013|
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 3764 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Member # 37091
| Posted: 1:02 PM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013|
Thanks guys. I've been working and coping the past few days. Each step I take that severs us a little more feels painful and so final...it feels like little cuts to my heart each time. No one in my life or family knows yet save my BFF who called me when it happened and I reached out because of how much it was hurting. Had she not contacted me at that moment she probably wouldn't know either. I haven't told anyone because I need to decided where I want to go and do from here without outside influence and knowing my family and friends they will all have something to say about what I should be doing now.
Thank you all for your support. I am walking through this as best I can.
FWGF/BGF-me, BBF/WBF-Him, MH's Together 10 yrs
Both had DDays and TT
Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.
Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.
Posts: 2274 | Registered: Oct 2012
Member # 37362
| Posted: 1:33 PM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013|
WW: 28 (ME)
BH: 28 (SI profile: CrappyLife)
Posts: 334 | Registered: Nov 2012
Member # 33226
| Posted: 10:10 AM, August 26th (Monday), 2013|
How are you doing today, Unagie?
You can call me NIK
"Ring the bells that still can ring
Forget your perfect offering
There is a crack in everything
That's how the light gets in." -Cohen
Posts: 21874 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 33699
| Posted: 10:13 AM, August 26th (Monday), 2013|
I'm so sorry Unagie. I've been reading your posts and I know that you have been working really hard both with your self and your relationship. I hope you find the strength to do what is best for you and that you put yourself first.
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
Posts: 2918 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
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