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User Topic: Well, hot damn, he's doing it again, seven years later.
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Default  Posted: 4:36 PM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm horrified for you.

POF is where my WH found one of his ONS. He picked her out...he literally went shopping for an affair partner, and then desecrated our vows while I was home cooking his dinner and mothering our children...then I worked until midnight to help pay the bills (I work from home).

I can't go through this only to have it happen again in 6 years.

Why? WHY do they do this?

BW - 42 (Me)
WH - 39 (2 ONS, 6m EA)
Married 13 years, 3 children
DD: 7/13/13
Status: Rugsweeping, I guess.

Posts: 248 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Somewhere Out There
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Default  Posted: 4:43 PM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry.
THIS is my biggest fear.
May I ask how you handled the first offense? Counseling, etc?
Any idea how after 7 years of R you are back?!

ME: 30
WH: 35

Fool me once - Shame on you. Fool me twice - pack your shit and get out.

Posts: 310 | Registered: Jan 2013
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Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Time to throw him back. I'm so sorry.

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

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