You have gained wisdom through a painful experience. You apologized for your actions. Now the hard part...you know better so you must do better.
I can appreciate your husband as a rug sweeper...my wife is too...to avoid conflict.
I would go with your IC on this one...though a part of me thinks further actions on your part are not a bad idea. But I tend to run a rabbit hard before I stop the chase....kind of the opposite of rug sweeping!
This is an issue I am working through... I have not yet learned better so I am not doing better. I am also thick headed at times.
Regardless...you successfully navigated another pitfall on this journey. While proud is not the exact right word, you both should feel pleased you took firm, decisive, positive action following a negative reaction. It bodes well for your futures together....actually, it bodes well for YOUR future, regardless of your marital status.
God be with you both.