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User Topic: Betrayed Men Part 13
MoreWould
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Default  Posted: 5:47 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wonder if they expect an award for being anything over 50%?

I guess I should have mentioned, she followed up her "99%" comment with,

"That should count for something."

The Stupid Hall of Fame, you really can't make this shit up.

And here's the zinger guys. This is coming from an FWW that has been "successfully reconciled" for over 30 years. She's actually done a pretty good job, and yet shit like this still comes out of her mouth once in a while.

Wimenz just think differnt.


Me BH/WH, 63
Her WW/BW, 62
Her DDay Dec 1976 OMW at the door
My DDay, ~ 2years later, confessed ONS the next day
R via "Sweeping under the rug"
Still married, 40 yrs, mostly OK
2 kids, 24 & 20

Posts: 347 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Colorado
jjct
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Default  Posted: 5:49 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dear Cadbury Chocolate,
FUCK YOU TOO!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-yE-wGeCmYA
The clue that this vid is a fake - at the .49 mark
Signed,
MANcott Bitch!

Posts: 6021 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
DefiledRage
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Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

99% & I take my vows seriously

Definitely two quotes for the hall of fame. And on the same page no less.

Goes along with that whole "well i'm 100% committed to us now" bullshit I've been hearing daily recently.

If my baffled had a baffled i'd be baffled x 2. I think its a confuse and conquer technique they employ.


Me:35 WW:34 M:13yrs
3 young children
Dday 1 EA 7/8/2010
Dday 2 PA 3/1/2013 same OMM for 4yrs

Mister rabbit says, "A moment of realization is worth a thousand prayers."


Posts: 427 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Two blocks from south shit and west hell
jjct
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Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

RB - Burr's Psycho Robot routine - lmao!
Thanks for the heads up.

Posts: 6021 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
Tred
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Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DR,

Sounds like a great band name - Baffled Squared.

As for the percentages, I've never believed marriage was 50/50. It's 100% on both sides. To paraphrase someone I can't remember, it ain't staring at each other, it's looking outward together in the same direction.

Is a Mancott what you sleep in when you are in your mankini?


Married: 16 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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jjct
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Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It could be in a mankini, in fact, it could be at any time, even when you're going jungle.

I just know for a certainty, I won't be drivin a FIAT, to a KFC, having a Cad for desert - who is first? with any just deserved jokes/ - drinkin a tecate...

just realized, all o that rhymed. well fuck me,
my mind has been turned.

to a thing that has changed and is saving me, and as it is, please let the angels hold it up in the end as evidence of

that i was at least once,
once! salt, and lips, and knowing.
though that shit didn't rhyme at the end, i know.


Posts: 6021 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
nuance
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Default  Posted: 11:13 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey, spoiler alert! Where can I get Breaking Bad streaming?

More Would, have you asked your W what would be a percentage she would be comfortable with for you?

Would she also like 99%? :)


Dday May 2000. R'ed.
People suck.

Posts: 1160 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: California
DefiledRage
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Default  Posted: 1:26 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is a Mancott what you sleep in when you are in your mankini?

while sipping on a strawberry manquiri?

I MANcott the whole Disney/ABC bastard child.

First fill little girls heads with the unattainable grandeur of Cinderella, then turn them into Desperate Housewives and Mistresses.
Fuck you Disney!

If I had time I'd ascii a big middle finger right here, but you'll just have to use your imaginations, going to attempt some sleep.

****Edit boy to MAN

[This message edited by DefiledRage at 1:28 AM, August 28th (Wednesday)]


Me:35 WW:34 M:13yrs
3 young children
Dday 1 EA 7/8/2010
Dday 2 PA 3/1/2013 same OMM for 4yrs

Mister rabbit says, "A moment of realization is worth a thousand prayers."


Posts: 427 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Two blocks from south shit and west hell
Mr. Kite
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Default  Posted: 8:31 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Where can I get Breaking Bad streaming?

http://www.couchtuner.eu/breaking-bad/


Posts: 900 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: Mid-Atlantic
PowerGlo
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Default  Posted: 8:58 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My STBXWW told me when I followed through with the divorce that I do the worst thing a person could do to another person and that was to give her hope. Never mind my hope that she would've came to her senses and stopped her lying, deceitful ways. She just hoped I would continue to let her eat cake.


Married 27 years...
DDay #1 11/11/11 - AFF profile with 10-15 boy toys.
DDay #2 1/13/2012 - still at it with the AFF boys.
1/17/2014 - Divorced
I knew the moment had arrived
For killing the past and coming back to life


Posts: 133 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: NW Indiana
RyeBread
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Default  Posted: 9:30 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

RB - Burr's Psycho Robot routine - lmao!

Absolutely hilarious...Burr has so many good insights into women that misandric society doesn't want to admit.

I think I'll have MANicotti for lunch.


Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates

Posts: 957 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Midwest
MoreWould
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Default  Posted: 10:02 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nuance,

WW thought I should have the same "freedom" until I exercised it, then not so much.

Way back in the day, Up With People's signature song could have two meanings in this context

Freedom isn't free
You got to pay the price, sacrifice
For your liberty


Me BH/WH, 63
Her WW/BW, 62
Her DDay Dec 1976 OMW at the door
My DDay, ~ 2years later, confessed ONS the next day
R via "Sweeping under the rug"
Still married, 40 yrs, mostly OK
2 kids, 24 & 20

Posts: 347 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Colorado
5454real
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Default  Posted: 11:57 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

brothers, got a guy up in general needs a whole lot of manly support. I can't link to it, but his post starts with awake 2 days. pretty terrible background story.

if you have the time, give him a shout out. it really sounds like he could use some manly support. I can't think of a better group of men to give it.


BH 50, WW 41
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 19(Hers),DS 8 Ours, DGS 2 1/2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2071 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Sal1995
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Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The WW and I had an MC session yesterday. I told the MC that it hurts to know that Mrs. Sal doesn't love me as much as I love her. She got a confused look on her face and asked what I meant by that. Replied that it was simple, I know that if I were to engage in such activities, it meant that my love for my wife was barely existent. I can't see that happening under any circumstances, but if it did it would mean that I already emotionally checked out and already had one foot out the door.

The MC replied that I was confusing character and integrity with love. The wife just sat there silently and cried, and didn't disagree with anything that was said.

So, on top of being sexually immoral, my wife lacks character and integrity. Choose wisely, as they say.

Not that I didn't know that she was lacking those traits (she did those things for so long, after all), but to hear someone else say it was kind of a punch to the gut. Have to say though, our MC is really talented. She somehow combines straight talk with love and compassion in a way that most people could never pull off.

Just another day in paradise.

Oh well, bring on college football and the next episode of Breaking Bad!


Me-45
WW-42
DDay 2/17/13, 10 month PA/EA
Final NC late Feb. '13
M - 18 years, together 19+
4 children

Reconciled


Posts: 1035 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Texas
SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fuck yeah to college football and breaking bad.

Alright, so I guess my wife had been lying her whole life that she is incapable of stopping.

Point in case:

She is back in Phoenix for work, went out to dinner with her girlfriends. I text her around 7:oo p.m. because I need the neighbors phone number. No reply. Well, this irks me, cause her affair happened on work trips..so the deal is she is supposed to be responsive.

I'm not pisssed, but "irked" So I call her at 8:oo p.m., no response. At 8:30, I give her a "what the hell, can I get a text back?"

At 9:10, I get a text from her saying "sorry my phone died, i'll call u once my phone charges"

Here's the problem. At 8:00 p.m. I went on "find my phone", it shows location and battery power in the phones. She had 39% of her juice at 8:00. Phone had died. Fucking liar.

The stupid thing is that she lies about stupid shit. I mean, just say, I didn't hear the damn phone. But, nope, not her...just lie away.

I can't believe that it doesn't sink in that lies do the most fucking damage.

Anyway, the kicker....
Didn't want to talk to her yesterday. My 8 yr old son was saying goodnight to her on the phone, asked me if I wanted to talk to her...I said nope, too busy doing dishes.

The Boy didn't buy it, he asked me later why I didn't want to talk to her. I said, nothing big, I was busy and was just a little mad at her.

From the boy..."Is she cheating again?" Fuck me, that's my 8 year old's view of his mother.


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


Posts: 1267 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Everett
Tred
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Default  Posted: 12:21 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry WB. Really. It seems that old patterns die hard sometimes.


Married: 16 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 12:25 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WB,
Sorry to hear that man.

"Is she cheating again?" Fuck me, that's my 8 year old's view of his mother.

Does she know this? Does she get how her bs is not obscuring anything, not protecting anyone? It's revealing her character and who she is choosing to be. She needs to do some internal work or this is going to be how her kids remember her for the rest of their lives.


ETA: Need to proofread better in the future.

[This message edited by Brandon808 at 12:30 PM, August 28th, 2013 (Wednesday)]


xBH
D final 8/2012

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RyeBread
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Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not to add fuel to the fire WB but I know I can talk on my phone WHILE it's charging. Modern technology is pretty amazing! (sarc)

Sorry the wife is being inconsiderate. Even more sorry your son has to have those kinds of questions thanks to mom's inability to get her shit together.

I feel for you brother.


Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates

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lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 12:29 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WB,
That is the danger of your kiddos knowing what happened. But again, cant unring that bell. But I would have to talk to him about that comment and his need to engage in that conversation.
On the other note. There are many people who lie about all kinds of little things all the time. They get so habitual it is unnatural for them to be straight if they percieve the slightest consequence to be avioded. Remorse prevents some from the constant tourtuous act of continued lies, but that doesnt seem to be the case here.


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

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Sal1995
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Default  Posted: 12:33 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry WB. That must have been a hard question to receive from your 8-yr. old. Have you confronted her about this? Just wondering if she has an explanation or is owning up to the lies, if that's the case. I'd be curious to find out why she felt the need to lie.


Me-45
WW-42
DDay 2/17/13, 10 month PA/EA
Final NC late Feb. '13
M - 18 years, together 19+
4 children

Reconciled


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