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User Topic: Betrayed Men Part 13
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here's what I'm sipping tonight. I tried to get my brother to go to a college football game with me but he's too tired so I guess I'll just watch it on TV and drink good local beer.

My step brother's first college game is tomorrow (I guess I'm rooting for Iowa for the next couple of years... ) so I might need to get more beer before then.

[This message edited by h0peless at 7:59 PM, August 30th (Friday)]


Posts: 1323 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Arizona
Betrayed444
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Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ETA #2: I'm calling in a fire mission. We need B444's take on this topic.

Well
My MIL is dead so I don't get any flack from her but she was always on my side.
FIL was a good guy and when I first met him he asked if I was going out with his daughter. He said good luck.
They lived in a big house and none of them worked. Her mom had a masters in speech pathology. Her dad was a laid off CEO of a major U.S company. I thought they were in the witness protection program!
I feel left out on the putting out part. WW didn't put out completely for 3 or 4 months. I had been getting it regular from others on the side since technically we weren't dating but she stayed over all the time.
I liked that. I felt like she wasn't easy. When she finally did she kind of freaked and wanted to go home explaining that she thought it would ruin our relationship. Whenever she finally slept with someone she said the thrill was gone and was afraid it would happen to us.
I was actually the same way.
She slept with OM after 3 days of pursuit. At least phone records indicate that. That threw me off but it was in line with her teen behavior.
WW kind of went into her tailspin after her Mother passed then her brother a month later. Depression, increased spending, pain pills.

[This message edited by Betrayed444 at 8:08 PM, August 30th (Friday)]


Posts: 494 | Registered: Feb 2013
ForwardMotion
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Default  Posted: 9:51 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beer dudes - started the evening (late afternoon) with some Martin House Texas Imperial Red. Sitting by the pool now with some Oskar Blues Ten Fidy. It's still about 100 degrees here in N. Texas at 10 PM.

Peace brothers.


me - BH

'It's not the end of everything,
It's just end of everything you know.'


Posts: 400 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Tejas
5454real
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Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lol, FM, sitting out myself. A whole lot closer to Canada than Mexico and it's only 88 with damn near 100% humidity sipping on a Jack and coke with a twist of lemon. 108 HI expected tomorrow. Just damn. Weird weather. Had to wear a jacket while golfing in July. Now this.

Tred, haven't had a Bud Light since D-day. I can't find the 20# I've mysteriously misplaced since then. Weird!


BH 50, WW 41
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 19(Hers),DS 8 Ours, DGS 2 1/2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2083 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
ForwardMotion
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Default  Posted: 10:27 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, it's a treat when you sweat just sitting in the lawn chair. I'm a native Iowegian, I don't miss those high humidity days.


me - BH

'It's not the end of everything,
It's just end of everything you know.'


Posts: 400 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Tejas
ForwardMotion
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Default  Posted: 10:30 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My MIL has been acting up the last couple days, so fWW is getting her crazy on. Looks like I'll be isolating myself with beer and the dogs this weekend.


me - BH

'It's not the end of everything,
It's just end of everything you know.'


Posts: 400 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Tejas
5454real
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Default  Posted: 10:32 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hell, I started to sweat just setting the damn thing up. Idiots out walking around took on a whole new meaning when I moved here!


BH 50, WW 41
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 19(Hers),DS 8 Ours, DGS 2 1/2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2083 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Uhtred
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Default  Posted: 7:28 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My finger after I wrecked that dirty mouth sumbitch.

http://i754.photobucket.com/albums/xx182/Uhtred4/image_zps059425c0.jpg


Me: BH 32years old DDay 4-29-13
Her: WW 33 years old
“Yet each man kills the thing he loves
By each let this be heard
Some do it with a bitter look
Some with a flattering word
The coward does it with a kiss
The brave man with a sword”

Posts: 416 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Houston, Texas
Uhtred
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Default  Posted: 7:39 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm a tard when it comes to using computers. I can't seem to get the picture thing down right.

[This message edited by Uhtred at 7:40 AM, August 31st (Saturday)]


Me: BH 32years old DDay 4-29-13
Her: WW 33 years old
“Yet each man kills the thing he loves
By each let this be heard
Some do it with a bitter look
Some with a flattering word
The coward does it with a kiss
The brave man with a sword”

Posts: 416 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Houston, Texas
dangerclose
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Default  Posted: 7:40 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Greetings my brothers. Lurking for almost two years and have been shaking my head in silent approval for too long. I am still so disturbed by all this I cant believe it. I have witnessed so much incredible shit in my 47 years...see username, but this mind blowing experience is beyond compare. Loved the internal dialogue thread, as I am probably the most sarcastic bastard on earth. I will do what I can... but thanks.

Posts: 13 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: washington, dc
jjct
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Default  Posted: 9:01 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for your service, danger. Welcome to the band of brothers you never thought to join.

Uhtred - that pic of the boys climbing the fence, my monitor's been acting up a lot lately...
That needs to be framed and mounted on their bedroom wall.
Glad you got that ring off!


Posts: 6028 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
Ascendant
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Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've got a simple palate, Bud Light works. It's consistent if cold
This is me, too
An adventurous night for me is grabbing a 6-pack of Sam Adams Octoberfest or Blue Moon on the way home.


“Anyone who has a continuous smile on his face conceals a toughness that is almost frightening.”

Posts: 1616 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Illinois
dangerclose
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Default  Posted: 10:02 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey thanks for the appreciate your service but I loved it more than you know, still servining on the civ. side...So..In a nutshell my story which I would prefer not to put anywhere else. Knew something was wrong. started snooping and found dick pics and jack off vids on wifes computer, plus her jamming dildos sent to this fucktard she worked for when we were stationed on the west coast. We were nowhere near this POS for about 10 years but she remained in contact. Basically having an EA for years mutually spouse bashing for most of the time, then an "unintended" hook up during her visit to old friends on the left coast about 3 years ago. Damn I miss the west, grew up an AZ,CA,OR,AK, currently in the District of Dumbshits, sorry lost track. Which lead to more trips by her at my expense to screw this bastard under the guise of ailing family members...Dirty laundry aired... That actually sucked to type. I told the other wife and restrained from retribution although I sometimes think it would be so much fun...At times I am tempted to, I own his real named xxx.com hand have all his JO vids and could ruin his career but realize he was just a willing participant. thanks for letting me rant.

Posts: 13 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: washington, dc
Uhtred
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Default  Posted: 10:15 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Danger Close,

I have the same pictures as you do to the T of my wife doing what your wife was doing and the OM sending his pictures. Not that you didn't already have mind movies but you also have pictures to go along with it. Hate to see you having to join the forum but welcome, I just got here myself.


Me: BH 32years old DDay 4-29-13
Her: WW 33 years old
“Yet each man kills the thing he loves
By each let this be heard
Some do it with a bitter look
Some with a flattering word
The coward does it with a kiss
The brave man with a sword”

Posts: 416 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Houston, Texas
Uhtred
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Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Uhtred - that pic of the boys climbing the fence, my monitor's been acting up a lot lately...


That needs to be framed and mounted on their bedroom wall.
Glad you got that ring off!

Yes sir, I do have a print of it. My two boys are real close to each other. The oldest is 6 and the youngest is 3. They are the glue that is holding me together right now.


Me: BH 32years old DDay 4-29-13
Her: WW 33 years old
“Yet each man kills the thing he loves
By each let this be heard
Some do it with a bitter look
Some with a flattering word
The coward does it with a kiss
The brave man with a sword”

Posts: 416 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Houston, Texas
dangerclose
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Default  Posted: 12:24 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In response to the current topic My MIL was aware of the sexual part of the affair for about six months of the 1 year duration. She is of French nationality and somehow condoned it and provided cover for it. I sort of hate her for it. I am not sure my FIL is aware he has huge values retired Naval Commander, Naval Acad ring knocker and all that(I am ARMY). I can not stand to be in the same room with them at the same time... Sorry I cant seem to put coherent thoughts together today. Yet I feel the need to purge. I am almost two years out and it seems like yesterday. I have not done IC but I probably need to dump on someone. Ramble...this whole thing I am coming to the realization may be a dealbreaker. The complicity of friends and family on her part may just be it. Fuck its college football opener, Cant watch Pros anymore as she fucked the POS next to my teams stadium. Everywhere I look listen and here is just a constant reminder. After 2 years...does this shit pass?

Posts: 13 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: washington, dc
Ascendant
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Default  Posted: 1:05 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ugh. Just got a phone call that my mom and her husband were in a car accident. My mom is fine, but hospitalized, but her husband is dead. I wasn't close with him (they got married when I was 21), but I feel awful for my mom.


“Anyone who has a continuous smile on his face conceals a toughness that is almost frightening.”

Posts: 1616 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Illinois
Sal1995
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Default  Posted: 2:34 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry for your mom, FP. But glad she's ok.


Me-45
WW-42
DDay 2/17/13, 10 month PA/EA
Final NC late Feb. '13
M - 18 years, together 19+
4 children

Reconciled


Posts: 1035 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Texas
MoreWould
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Default  Posted: 3:13 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

FP

My deepest condolences. It just reminds me that life can be taken in an instant. Not too be taken for granted, even when we're suffering so deep we wish we were dead.

Every one of us felt that way right after DDay, but in the bigger scheme of things, even misery is precious.

[This message edited by MoreWould at 3:15 PM, August 31st (Saturday)]


Me BH/WH, 63
Her WW/BW, 62
Her DDay Dec 1976 OMW at the door
My DDay, ~ 2years later, confessed ONS the next day
R via "Sweeping under the rug"
Still married, 40 yrs, mostly OK
2 kids, 24 & 20

Posts: 347 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Colorado
5454real
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Default  Posted: 3:28 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sorry brother, my condolences to you and your family.

Eta sorry posting from my phone

[This message edited by 5454real at 3:31 PM, August 31st (Saturday)]


BH 50, WW 41
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 19(Hers),DS 8 Ours, DGS 2 1/2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

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