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User Topic: Betrayed Men Part 13
StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 11:54 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG ITS A GIRL IN THE MENZ ROOM


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

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Betrayed444
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Default  Posted: 12:21 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


OMG ITS A GIRL IN THE MENZ ROOM

Almost like coming in and nagging about leaving the toilet seat up.
Please bring us sammiches next time.

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Ascendant
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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have to say, I don't know the exact stats, but I feel like we do a pretty good job at self-policing down here. It's seldom enough that I always have to read backwards, like,"Awww, who fucked up...?"


“Anyone who has a continuous smile on his face conceals a toughness that is almost frightening.”

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RyeBread
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Default  Posted: 12:51 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Who needs those revenge sites anyway. I'll just have Betrayed444 go visit my OM and have him piss himself in front of his coworkers.


Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates

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Tred
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Default  Posted: 1:16 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Speaking of changing the subject...pretty cool thread in General about a lady who knew her H was cheating, and how she handled it. Almost as good as B444 making a dude piss himself. Give it a read for inspiration (it's called an Update on he doesn't know that I know).


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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 1:56 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Almost like coming in and nagging about leaving the toilet seat up.
Please bring us sammiches next time.

No, more like doing my volunteer moderating job on the website you use for support. Get your own fucking sandwich. Thanks.



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Ascendant
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Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


“Anyone who has a continuous smile on his face conceals a toughness that is almost frightening.”

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64fleet
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Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ahh, reminds me of home.


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RyeBread
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Default  Posted: 2:17 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

............Anybody watch the game last night?


Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates

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RyeBread
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Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just read that thread Tred. (Rhyme not intentional). She sure pulled a nice one on him. I still feel bad for her because in the end the A still happened and she still has to deal with the aftermath. Good stuff though


Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates

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Betrayed444
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Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ahh, reminds me of home.

Omg that was priceless
Exhibit A right there
And it reminded me to call WW
Who needs those revenge sites anyway. I'll just have Betrayed444 go visit my OM and have him piss himself in front of his coworkers.

Anytime bro

[This message edited by Betrayed444 at 2:34 PM, September 10th (Tuesday)]


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Betrayed444
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Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just read that thread. Wow. I'm a bit envious to be honest. She walked right out. In proud of her.

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slater13
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

'twas me.......I fucked up.

((slithering back into my hole))


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wert
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Default  Posted: 2:58 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Get your own fucking sandwich. Thanks.

Top shelf.



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authenticnow
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Red  Posted: 3:05 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Since you all seem to be getting so much support from each other in here, we let a lot of stuff go. However, when the thread is moderated according to the guidelines, it would be nice for the staff to not be disrespected.

This thread is still part of SI, and if something is flagged due to a guideline violation, ignoring or disrespecting the flag will result in loss of posting privileges.

Thank you.


Take up your space (and do it well).

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SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 3:23 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here is a distraction as the menz lick our wounds. Behave fellas.

[This message edited by wonderboy at 3:28 PM, September 10th (Tuesday)]


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MoreWould
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Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OK, back to that thread in General. Clearly her WA (Wayward Asshole) a clueless and nasty douchebag. Plenty of well-deserved "You Go Girl" props but I found rooting for her a bit of a guilty pleasure, like cheering for Walter White in Breaking Bad.

Am I the only one here who wonders what the reaction would have been had the genders been reversed?


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Her WW/BW, 62
Her DDay Dec 1976 OMW at the door
My DDay, ~ 2years later, confessed ONS the next day
R via "Sweeping under the rug"
Still married, 40 yrs, mostly OK
2 kids, 24 & 20

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64fleet
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Default  Posted: 3:40 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lawyer told me if I left, it could be construed as abandonment, and wouldn't look good at court time.

sometimes, still wish I had though....


time wounds all heels

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Tred
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Default  Posted: 3:41 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Am I the only one here who wonders what the reaction would have been had the genders been reversed?

I actually hadn't thought of that...I would hope that no matter who the gender is, they would of been supported. It's pretty epic to flame out your WS that way. I get that it's really burning bridges, but I can honestly say that if I knew R was out of the question I don't know how gracious I would be. That, and I didn't know my wife's AP on a personal level, and shopping for butt plugs would of turned him on.


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RyeBread
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Default  Posted: 3:54 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Interesting question MW. I'd like to think it would be equal responses regardless. But I have a feeling a guy posting something like that would get flamed a bit more.

Like I said earlier. All that time and energy on getting one back at her WS and she still has to deal with the A. Maybe even look back and regret her reaction at some point down the road too, on top of the A.

I am grateful I haven't lost my shit yet, not to say it isn't bursting at the seams though.


Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates

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