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User Topic: Betrayed Men Part 13
aesir
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Default  Posted: 9:51 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Merlin, sadly you were my education about NJ.


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


Posts: 14924 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Winnipeg
Later
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Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

On the topic of inappropriate comments, I heard a comedian say that his ex said:

I like it when people kiss me there....

He was pretty funny, pointing out that she could not even be gender specific.

In regards to grooming, she said;

Everyone is going to notice that....


Posts: 384 | Registered: May 2013
Tred
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Default  Posted: 10:42 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Day four on the island brothers. Red Stripe on the beach isn't too bad at all. Been balls to the wall having fun and hanging. Jumped from the top cliff at Rick's right before sunset. I think it's around 60' - fun as shit. Mate of mine videoed it all for me - got the evidence! Been jet skiing, drinking, swimming, and hanging on the beach.

No dreds for Tred though! Probably more of the same today - got two days left on the island. No worries. Going to go get my second Red Stripe of the day and go swimming in the crystal clear water and wish you were all here with me. Well, maybe not JJ - he would attract women like canned cheese attracts reef fish.

Peace and love brothers. Do something for yourself today - it feels pretty damn good.

[This message edited by Tred at 10:42 AM, September 16th (Monday)]


Married: 16 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 3303 | Registered: Dec 2011
thinkingclear
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Default  Posted: 10:56 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love that place. That's impressive Tred because that's a long drop.


BS - Me
WW - Her
10 month EA/PA

Posts: 211 | Registered: Apr 2013
jjct
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Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Thanks for the update!

Posts: 6019 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
Tred
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Default  Posted: 11:10 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is right after I jumped. It felt awesome. There were three full catamarans of people watching and the cliff was packed - popular spot on a Friday night!

ETA: I'm sure you've seen enough of me by now!

[This message edited by Tred at 8:43 AM, September 20th (Friday)]


Married: 16 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 3303 | Registered: Dec 2011
Sal1995
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Default  Posted: 11:30 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think it's around 60' - fun as shit.

Holy shit Tred, I'm impressed. A 30' plunge would just about exceed my design limits. I'm not as buff as you, though.

Glad you're having fun.

ETA: What's the orange bracelet for - identifying the body?

[This message edited by Sal1995 at 11:31 AM, September 16th (Monday)]


Me-45
WW-42
DDay 2/17/13, 10 month PA/EA
Final NC late Feb. '13
M - 18 years, together 19+
4 children

Reconciled


Posts: 1028 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Texas
Tred
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Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What's the orange bracelet for - identifying the body?

Nah - just marks you as a tourist so the vendors bug the shit out of you on the beach. It identifies the resort you are staying at so security won't kick you out. And anyone could do it. Just take a step and gravity does the rest. Just make sure you keep your legs closed or your nuts will end up around your ears.


Married: 16 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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MoreWould
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Default  Posted: 12:33 PM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Back to an excellent graphic from Mr. Kite titled WINO XING, here's my contribution. Should probably be posted at the entrance to every neighborhood in America.

I hope this isn't TMI for of you guys close to DDay.

[This message edited by MoreWould at 6:24 PM, September 16th (Monday)]


Me BH/WH, 63
Her WW/BW, 62
Her DDay Dec 1976 OMW at the door
My DDay, ~ 2years later, confessed ONS the next day
R via "Sweeping under the rug"
Still married, 40 yrs, mostly OK
2 kids, 24 & 20

Posts: 347 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Colorado
Later
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Default  Posted: 12:44 PM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Damn, I have not seen people jumping off cliffs in masse like that since I was fighting in the Pacific back in WWII. Of course the Japanese were not doing it simply because they had too many beers.

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5454real
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Default  Posted: 1:42 PM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

awesome pictures! glad you're having a good time.

definitely do not lose that bracelet.


BH 50, WW 41
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 19(Hers),DS 8 Ours, DGS 2 1/2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2068 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Mr. Kite
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Default  Posted: 4:02 PM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome 'Breaking Bad' episode, "Ozymandias," last night!

"My name is Mr. Kite, king of kings:
Look on my marriage, ye Mighty, and despair!"
Nothing beside remains. Round the decay Of that colossal wreck, boundless and bare
The lone and level sands stretch far away."


Posts: 900 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: Mid-Atlantic
aesir
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Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So no photos of Tredlocks eh?


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


Posts: 14924 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Winnipeg
SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


Posts: 1267 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Everett
5454real
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Default  Posted: 6:10 PM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Was just thinking about you WB. Got everything ready to go? We're winding down.

I'm outta eye bleach. BTW


BH 50, WW 41
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 19(Hers),DS 8 Ours, DGS 2 1/2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2068 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
jjct
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Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok, so now we know Tred's right-handed and likes to wear wife-beaters, oh! the strangest thing - Tred, you look exactly how I pictured you.
The camera angle - well done ma'am!

Posts: 6019 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am sure that I can come up with something. I'll try to make sure nobody requires eye-bleach.


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


Posts: 1267 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Everett
Ascendant
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Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've just got to say that the Kramer-turkey on the front page is just plain fucked up.

It was cool maybe the first fifty times, but now I'm starting to think I'm having old acid flashbacks.


...And the fucked-up part is that I always forget about the damn thing turning and nodding at me. I'm never surprised by the actual photo, but every single time it moves, I get creeped out.


“Anyone who has a continuous smile on his face conceals a toughness that is almost frightening.”

Posts: 1604 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Illinois
flup
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Default  Posted: 10:42 PM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was reading in the divorce forum.... And getting a bit pissed, I'm afraid.

Would a guy really wait to be otherwise occupied with a female before he leaves his wife? The wimmenz over there were piling on and pummeling each other with their "he wanted a wife and a girlfriend" stories.

I can think of a lot of reasons to leave, but financially castrating myself isn't something I want to do right now. I don't know if it'd be any better later, for that matter...

I guess something warm and blond would be nice as a backstop - but, that sounds so totally vacuous and shallow. I can think of a lot of personal introspection and motorcycle riding that could be done without the wifely baggage...


Me: BS 55
Her: fWW 50

D-Day #1: 12 Aug. 2008. WW's 2nd affair w/college teacher.
D-Day #2: 18 June 2009. Affair #1 with neighbor was fall of 2002 - while I was coping with the fallout from 9/11.
Still trying to R.
22 years married


Posts: 426 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: Ohio
Tred
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Default  Posted: 6:28 AM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

likes to wear wife-beaters

Do what? Isn't that like a tank top? I'm more of a golf shirt man myself.

Flup - haven't read that thread, so I won't comment on it. But I believe D/S isn't a protected thread. You are more than welcome to offer support in there if you like. That's where it belongs. The Menz thread is our safe place, out of respect for the mods we try not to drag conversations in here where they can't be commented on. I think that's pretty fair.

And you guys are slacking. You only have one more day to get to BM14


Married: 16 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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