So our first MC session is tomorrow. I'm ready, sooooo ready! Although I have no idea where to start. No idea if the MC will give us a starting point? I have no idea what to expect from this first session, or if I should expect anything.
So for those of you that have BTDT, do you have any thoughts, suggestions, questions I should ask, or things I should prepare myself for?
(quick background) WH had A with prostitute 2 weeks ago, I discovered 2 days later, swears he didn't screw her, although he's admitted to doing plenty of 'other' things. He is remorseful, wants to R, we are being mostly civil to each other (I've had my moments!). I had sex with him after I knew (came to find out it is called 'hysterical bonding', disgusted with myself!), scheduled for STD screening next week (having some not ok symptoms, guess it could be the stress, lack of sleep, food, etc.). He also swears, he's never strayed before.........I'm not convinced!
I'm 38(BW), He's 53(WH), we have 6 kids, blended family (Brady bunch-My3+His3, 5 boys/1 girl, We raising/raised (ages 13/16/18/23/24/25) all 6 and a new grandbaby and DIL). Married 12 years.
Thank you for help and suggestions!!!