I just spent some time typing out a list of statements that are written from my WW's perspective as justifications for her lying and cheating on me.
I started the list with "Iím justified in lying and cheating on K, and continuing to maintain a relationship with the OM because:" I came up with 25 statements to this, most of which are things she has said, and the rest I have implied.
I am trying to decide whether to show her this list. So many of the statements seem so ludicrous and it amazes me that she can't see it (I know. The fog). Maybe in MC?
Has anyone else done something like this?