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User Topic: A Dash of Strength for You All
IGaveItMyAll
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Member # 38622
Default  Posted: 3:06 PM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No one can pull you down if you raise AWARENESS to your own inner strength and beauty.

We are all responsible for our own emotions and we are all resposible for our own self image. If we give that responsibility to someone else we will always be disappointed. IMHO


ME-BS 34
FWW-28
M 6 Yrs
DDAY- 8/20/12
R

Posts: 332 | Registered: Mar 2013
Jennifer99
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Member # 39551
Default  Posted: 9:20 PM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Posts: 556 | Registered: Jun 2013
Undone1
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Member # 37683
Default  Posted: 2:32 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the boost! I can't keep this thought in my head very long! It is my goal though.


Undone1
Married 10+ years to my high school sweetheart
DDAY 10/27/12
Me 55
WH 55
Blended Family: 25, 21, and 20
Married 10 years
"The Universe Unfolds as it Should"

Posts: 301 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Missouri
ccw82
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Member # 40133
Default  Posted: 6:26 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for the positive uplift! I hope I can believe this about myself one day soon.


Me: 31
WH (1DumbHusband): 35
Married 5 years, together 7 years.
D-Day: June 17th, 2013
TTs that came out as late as January 2014

"One is not tempted by that he does not want."


Posts: 136 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Dallas, TX
RidingHealingRd
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Member # 33867
Default  Posted: 11:01 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I remember telling my WH just days after Dday:

"You do not define me. Your shitty actions do not define me"

These were not just words I spoke, I honestly believe what I said.

I am not sure where I found this but I can relate to it...

Who are you to tell me that I'm less than I should be? Who are you to say that I need to look a certain way?
Who are you to judge me for who I am now and how I used to be?
I got 4 words for you
" YOU DON'T DEFINE ME "
I am who I am and I'm keeping it that way
Tall, short, whateva that's how I'll stay
I won't change for you or anyone else
See, no one defines me, Only myself
God put me here for a reason
He didn't put me here to compete with that girl
Or impress that boy
He put me here to do what's right
And that's what I do
I suite myself, I don't suite you
If you wanna define me go right ahead
Look me up in that dictionary you'll see it says
Beautiful, smart, the light of the world
Cause you see...
" I AM A ME" " I AM IT "
I am everything I could ever be
OH and one more thing ...
" YOU DON'T DEFINE ME "

[This message edited by RidingHealingRd at 11:03 PM, August 24th (Saturday)]


ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 3.5 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.


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