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User Topic: When in doubt,.......
Kalleigh
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Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Punt


I love my husband and kids, but there is something missing, LIKE MAYBE A LIFE!!!!!!!

Posts: 6507 | Registered: Mar 2003 | From: Wisconsin
heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 4:24 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

don't hit send


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1220 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 10:38 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^ good advice ^^^


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 21286 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

...about major life decisions ask yourself is it what you want to do or what you think you should do?

p.s. I hope it goes without saying that this does not apply to promises, contracts or vows. You kind of already made the decision in that case.


xBH
D final 8/2012

Posts: 4000 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
atsenaotie
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Default  Posted: 11:26 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When in doubt,.....

do as the doubters do, or does that only apply to Rome?


FBS 54
Separated and Divorcing

Posts: 4133 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: FL
Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 11:27 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Spit it out!


Indian wisdom says our lives are rivers. We are born somewhere small and quiet and we move toward a place we cannot see, but only imagine. From Tending Roses

Posts: 6560 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: WNY
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 5:03 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Order out (I'm a food sniffer... too many bad experiences with left overs!)


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2242 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
Snapdragon
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Default  Posted: 8:25 AM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When in doubt
I whip it out
I got me a rock 'n' roll band
It's a free-for-all

~Ted Nugent - Free For All


Divorced - recovered and hoping to help.

"We're not broken, just bent, and we can learn to love again" ~Pink


Posts: 3086 | Registered: May 2004 | From: Midwest
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Keep your mouth shut.

ok it doesn't rhyme, but it's taken me nearly 43 years to learn this one.

Snapdragon:
Love the Nugent reference btw


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8709 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 11:04 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Kick it out

The 7-8yo coach of my DD's soccer team used to say this to the girls while trying to teach them strategy

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5269 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Must Survive
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Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Smile


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." Daenerys Targaryen


Posts: 782 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
alphakitte
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Default  Posted: 11:40 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

don't


------ Some people are emotional tadpoles. Even if they mature they are just a warty toad. Catt

Posts: 350 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: 3 klicks north of Ambiguous
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 11:55 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Turn This Mutha Out

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1q2TA2zPtac


Posts: 11743 | Registered: Mar 2008
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 1:42 AM, September 1st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

...throw it out.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9824 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
wannabenormal
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Default  Posted: 3:10 AM, September 1st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When in doubt, make sure whatever you do can't be traced.



Posts: 14389 | Registered: Jun 2008
Laura28
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Default  Posted: 5:34 AM, September 1st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

stay silent


Married 32yrs Me BW 57Yrs Him FWH 60yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"

Posts: 2754 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Australia
Laura28
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Default  Posted: 5:36 AM, September 1st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

throw him out

Well at least it rhymes!


Married 32yrs Me BW 57Yrs Him FWH 60yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"

Posts: 2754 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Australia
Laura28
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Default  Posted: 5:37 AM, September 1st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

eat chocolate

(It doesn't rhyme but always helps me think)


Married 32yrs Me BW 57Yrs Him FWH 60yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"

Posts: 2754 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Australia
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