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User Topic: Its really starting to kick in
Ariabook
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Default  Posted: 9:51 AM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

2 days of NC and I'm really feeling it. walking to see my Doc and get some papers filled out. Want to text/call him. Every inch of land reminds me of him. How can I live in a place where I have so much memories and still recover? Its hurts so much right now.

I can't believe he chose someone else over his own daughter. He doesn't want to be? I can deal, I'm trying my best. But to say that if DDlooked more like you you would probably loved her more is plain old cruel. A paternity test? Asshole! Go to hell! I hate him so much


Separated
Wants nothing to do with our daughter
No Contact

Posts: 75 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Newwhere
krazy8516
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Default  Posted: 9:59 AM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

if DDlooked more like you you would probably loved her more

What?! That is a terrible thing to say!

Aww, hun! ::hugs:: to you and your little girl!


me: BW, 30
him: WH, 25
us: edging closer to R every day

married 2y, together 2.5y
1 beautiful daughter, 23m

"Someday soon, I'm going to put my life together; Win or lose, I'm starting over again."


Posts: 368 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Texas
Morhurt
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Default  Posted: 10:00 AM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh I am so sorry. You're right, that IS cruel. What an ass.

Big hugs!


Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

Posts: 955 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
jjsr
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Default  Posted: 11:23 AM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Asshole.


Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA
Trying to reconcile

Posts: 1649 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: midwest now.
Ariabook
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Default  Posted: 11:31 AM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks guy, I really didn't see it coming. He was always Oh So Happy to see her. His words really caught me off guard.

Just this morning DD took my phone and starting "dialing" positioned the phone close to her ears and said " Dada" I felt so angry for her. I can't believe what he's done to us, to her. My poor baby.


Separated
Wants nothing to do with our daughter
No Contact

Posts: 75 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Newwhere
Skan
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Default  Posted: 3:39 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And every time that you're tempted to break NC, remember those cruel words. Those are not the words of someone who has you or your daughter's best interests at heart. (((hugs)))


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4962 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Girlietoo
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Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow. That man doesn't deserve to call your little girl his daughter. So callous. I truly hope he sees the error of this ways and at least develops a relationship with his child.

FWIW, I have three older children who are not biologically my husbands. He has loved and cared for them as he would his own for the last 15yrs.

One day, when you are ready, you will find love again.


Me- 40
Him- 47
March 9, 2013- the day my heart died

Posts: 247 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Canada
Athena1979
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Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a worthless, selfish bastard!

How could he say something like that about his kid?!

Keep those terrible words close. Not to cause you more pain, because eventually, he will try to weasel back, and you might think about it.

Keep yourself grounded.

Hugs to you. I'm sorry this happened to you.


Married 11/11/11
Together since 3/2005
2 kids
D-day 12/27/12
D-day 4/12/13
D-day 6/26/13
God keeps the devil on a short leash. God will never give you more than you can handle.

Posts: 111 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Athena1979
whatnow8
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Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And every time that you're tempted to break NC, remember those cruel words. Those are not the words of someone who has you or your daughter's best interests at heart.

Asshole

I agree with this 100%. ((Ariabook))


wtf?? How insane does your life have to get that you want to polygraph your freaking HUSBAND. ~ OldCow18

It's hard to make a decision when you're too tired to hold on and too in love to let go. ~ unknown


Posts: 178 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: midwest
blindsided03
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Default  Posted: 9:54 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

don't worry!! he's playing the victim here. by making you "look bad," he's justifying his A to himself. don't take the bait. just laugh that this is how desperate he is to not be the bad guy. come on, we all know this is called projection--you didn't cheat, but he feels better by making you out to be the bad guy. you know what, let him say what he wants. babies only look like their dads for the 1st 6m, then they start to look like themselves. forget this douche. he's trying to justify how irresponsible he is.


BW
M6m
Dday(2)8/13
D12/13...he's a sociopath.

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