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User Topic: Is this how it begins?
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And he probably won't update till Sunday.

Yep living vicariously thru traildad .

Anyone else starting to notice guys in the supermarket?


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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burnt_toast
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Default  Posted: 9:10 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome, just awesome.


It is what it is.

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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll take some wine and popcorn too.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beer and corn nuts here. Traildad, he's out there. I live vicariously!


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


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Elaine2012
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Default  Posted: 10:16 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My first thought when I saw this at the top of the thread was, "oh good". I've been wondering when date night was. I was just wanting a snack popcorn sounds great.


Me- 53
WH- 57
Divorced - May 22, 2014
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 35 years
4 adult DD's, 2 SIL, 3 grandchildren

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Elaine2012
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Default  Posted: 10:16 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sorry double post

[This message edited by Elaine2012 at 10:44 PM, September 13th (Friday)]


Me- 53
WH- 57
Divorced - May 22, 2014
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 35 years
4 adult DD's, 2 SIL, 3 grandchildren

Posts: 285 | Registered: Jul 2012
traildad
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Default  Posted: 11:32 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just got home, update to come in a few minutes


Me BH - 33
3 beautiful young children
DDay 12/13/11
Divorced.

Posts: 650 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Michigan
timeforchange
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Default  Posted: 11:38 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Strumming my fingers on the kitchen table impatiently..... Refresh refresh!

Am sincerely hoping you had a great time and are intrigued enough to want to see her again


Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 11:40 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^^^^^^ ditto!


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5062 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
traildad
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Default  Posted: 11:56 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

From the supermarket checkout lane...to long goodnight kiss(es)!

After nearly three weeks of build up, several long conversations, and a few flirty texts, date night finally arrived!

In my old-fashioned style, I had picked up the phone and formally asked her if I could pick her up for our date, she said yes. So, at 7pm tonight I drove two blocks, walked nervously to her door and knocked. She invited me in for a moment, she looked beautiful in a patterned skirt and top with denim jacket. We talked for a few in her kitchen, then left for a small, out of the way Italian restaurant with a quiet, romantic atmosphere.

We talked for an hour before even remembering to order our dinner. The conversation came easy. We each ordered some red wine, and just talked. About life, kids, dreams, bucket lists, etc. After the meal we each enjoyed an after dinner drink. We didn't want to end the night there. So we headed a block down to the local Irish Pub, where we sat at the bar, ordered some red wine, and talked for another two hours. We even chatted with the bartender a bit, who just happens to be getting married in a few months and found our story very romantic.

After a cold walk to the car, we enjoyed a nice long conversation as we sat stopped by a train for fifteen minutes. She was throwing some "kiss me" hints as we sat, but the conversation didn't feel right, so I waited. We pulled into her driveway, where we sat in the old minivan and talked for another 30 minutes. There was to be no walking her to the door tonight as she was entering through her garage. So I simply asked her if it would be ok to kiss her right there, and we shared a short peck, followed by two longer, slower kisses. (I rushed the delivery a bit :) But she didn't get out of the car, but rather we talked some more. We set up our next date, a night-time flashlight corn maze and bonfire. We shared two more slow kisses before we finally parted ways for the evening. Sigh.

So I got home, and realized I had never told her that she looked nice. So, I sent her a quick goodnight text telling her I had a great time, and that she looked really nice tonight. She replied that she had a great time too.

There were a lot of laughs shared...and I had quite a few more when I got home and saw this thread

Thanks everyone for sticking with my story, goodnight!


Me BH - 33
3 beautiful young children
DDay 12/13/11
Divorced.

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 12:07 AM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sleep well . You've put a smile on my face tonight . Thanks for the update.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 12:50 AM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome, traildad. Happy for you.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:53 AM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds just... perfect. So glad you enjoyed your evening, traildad.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Griefstricken25
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Default  Posted: 1:17 AM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh MAN, traildad! So living vicariously, and so happy for you!


Me!
3 amazing kidlets
To WXH "Now you're just somebody that I used to know." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9NF2edxy-M
D-day and separation - June, 2009
Divorced - December, 2011

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Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 1:26 AM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

that's awesome


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

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Too_Trusting
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Default  Posted: 8:11 AM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just read this whole thread, and for once, I'm glad I came to the party late! I got to read from check-out line to date in one setting!

This is such a wonderfully sweet thread. To someone that has completely sworn off dating, it is refreshing to live vicariously through traildad.

Soooooo, when is the corn maze and bonfire date???


"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 8:34 AM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a beautiful way to start my morning!!

Congrats, traildad. Enjoy this time. And share often!!

Glad we got to be a part of your joy.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5808 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
foxglove
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Default  Posted: 8:48 AM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nice!

Second date?


Me (BS)47
XH (WS)53
Married 21 years
Divorced 2/19/07
Two sons 21 and 23 in college

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cmego
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Default  Posted: 9:15 AM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That second date sounds like fun!!


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


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PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 12:54 PM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeay! Score one for the good guys!!


divorced the Dooosh
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even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

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