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User Topic: moving home tomorrow!!!
Alyssamd24
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Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I went to talk to my BH tonight and he asked me to move back home!! I am so excited and happy he has finally done it, and am grateful he is willing to let me back in so we can work on R.

I know it's going to be hard, especially at first but am optimistic that we can make it work!


"I need to be redeemed to the one I've sinned against because he's all I ever knew of love"

Posts: 814 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Massachusetts
boontje
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Default  Posted: 9:21 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is awesome news. I know you have been waiting for a long time for this.


Me: BS
Dday: June 2011
Working on R, one day at a time

The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them.”
― Ernest Hemingway



Posts: 934 | Registered: Aug 2011
krazy8516
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Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


me: BW, 30
him: WH, 25
us: edging closer to R every day

married 2y, together 2.5y
1 beautiful daughter, 23m

"Someday soon, I'm going to put my life together; Win or lose, I'm starting over again."


Posts: 368 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Texas
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 9:42 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck to you both!


Posts: 11605 | Registered: Mar 2008
stupidgurl
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Default  Posted: 11:18 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is great news, I am rooting for you two!


me WW-31
him BH- 31

2002/3 (him) EA

PA(me)-Nov 2007

R


Posts: 128 | Registered: Sep 2012
Mrs Panda
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Default  Posted: 12:33 AM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great !!!


Me-41 FWW Him-45BH
M 13years. Reconciled.
DDay#1 Nov 2008 (OM2)
DDay#2 Aug 2009 (Confessed to OM 2001)
"Those who believe in telekinetics, raise my hand." -Kurt Vonnegut

Posts: 1971 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: The SouthEast
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 5:34 AM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2560 | Registered: Aug 2012
SurprisinglyOkay
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Default  Posted: 6:21 AM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!!


FWS me 36 (recovering addict)
BS him 39 AFrayedKnot
Together 7 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"


Posts: 1130 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 8:54 AM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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EmotionalFool
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Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nice!!


WW: 28 (ME)
BH: 28 (SI profile: CrappyLife)
D-Day- 15/10/12

Posts: 334 | Registered: Nov 2012
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15383 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
20WrongsVs1
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Happy  Posted: 10:28 AM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!


fWW: 42
BH: 52
Sweet DS & fierce DD, under 10
"Between stimulus and response there’s a space, in that space lies our power to choose our response, in our response lies our growth and our freedom." V. Frankl

Posts: 1109 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Redneck land
3xloser
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Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Good for both of you!! Now don't screw up.

Posts: 134 | Registered: Feb 2012
Alyssamd24
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Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you everyone.

Lol, I won't screw up this time!! I will show my BH he made the right choice by letting me move back in


"I need to be redeemed to the one I've sinned against because he's all I ever knew of love"

Posts: 814 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Massachusetts
nuance
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Default  Posted: 4:56 PM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't leave once you're there.


Dday May 2000. R'ed.
People suck.

Posts: 1199 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: California
SandAway
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Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is great!

Wishing you both the best ~


fWW
BH Tred
M 16yrs
DDay Nov. 2011

Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people


Posts: 433 | Registered: Dec 2012
heartbroken0903
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Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, wishing the both of you the best. Great news.


Me: WS, 30s
XH: BS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

Reconciled after divorce

"Someday you'll look back on all these days
And all this pain is gonna be invisible." - Hunter Hayes, "Invisible"


Posts: 2100 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
heforgotme
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Default  Posted: 9:47 AM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Omgosh! I was so excited to see this!


D-Day 11/15/12
5 month PA
Married 20 years, 3 kids
All good is hard. All evil is easy. Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.
- Scott Alexander
It was the day I thought I'd never get through - Daughtry

Posts: 1076 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: FL
TimeToManUp
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Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So how'd the move go?


I know we're worth it.
WH (Me-33)
BW (tattoodchinadoll-31)
D-Day: 12/22/11
Together 15 years, married for 10.
Three daughters, 8, 4 and 2.

Posts: 227 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: New Jersey
TxsT
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Default  Posted: 10:38 AM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is a wonderful step. I really feel you can"t R properly, or at all, without living together. Together makes it real again. I hope the move went well.

T


Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!


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