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User Topic: First world problems!
ProbableIceCream
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Default  Posted: 11:23 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I went to a party last night, stayed up way too late, and today I'm feeling cranky and extremely lonely. Sigh.

I probably just need more sleep. I had a great time and then it was kind of like a letdown afterwards.


Me, 32. DD, 8. DS, 6 (deceased).

Posts: 842 | Registered: Nov 2012
Thelastknight
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Default  Posted: 11:31 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel ya!


"Pain is weakness leaving the body"

Reformed BS 39 xWW 34
Two kids 5 and 2


Posts: 952 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: NW
SBB
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Default  Posted: 4:46 AM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It does feel like this the first few times you go out and leave it all behind for a night. You're thrilled because you realise you didn't think about all of this shit for a few hours but then you start thinking about all of this shit.

The more you do it the less let-downs you get. Kind of like holiday-itis.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5609 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
traicionada
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Default  Posted: 2:10 PM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gotta love the irony of it...I'm feeling shitty because just a handful of hours ago I wasn't


Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...

Posts: 3330 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Dallas, Texas
ProbableIceCream
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Default  Posted: 10:45 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's so frustrating. When I do go out and do stuff, I feel good, and then I feel terribly lonely when I get back home.

When I don't, I don't feel lonely, I just feel kinda numb.


Me, 32. DD, 8. DS, 6 (deceased).

Posts: 842 | Registered: Nov 2012
SBB
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Default  Posted: 6:28 AM, September 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Feeling things, even bad feelings, is better than numb.

*Dr Phil-ism Alert*, You can't heal what you don't feel".

It gets better. You're making new habits - it feels weird at first.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5609 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
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