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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 12:54 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My sister had another miscarriage.

I just found out, she lost her baby 10 days ago. And it all makes sense now. I knew all along. Not intellectually, but in my spirit. Something within sensed it.

I feel like I've been dying the past 10 days. Heart bleeding, tears pouring, soul screaming, agonizing pain. I felt I was going insane. Could not get a grip on my pain and loss. Could not understand why I hurt so dang bad. Every image of a newborn, every thought of my Angel Baby, shredded me. The feeling of loss was so great, I couldn't wrap my mind around it. Couldn't fathom where the triggers were coming from.

Now it makes sense.

Life sucks. She doesn't deserve this hurt. Not once, let alone twice.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


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click4it
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Default  Posted: 12:57 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What an incredibly caring sister you are. She is SO lucky to have you - and you have each other. I'm so sorry for her loss. ((((hugs)))


Me: 41
Two boys: 17 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

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abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Aubrie. I'm so sorry you and your sis are hurting. I will keep you all in my prayers.

((((Aubrie and sis))))


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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 1:00 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am sorry for you, your sister and the baby. Sending prayers


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:01 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry.

When travesty hits my sister (she had miscarriages as well) I can feel it too.

(((Aubrie84)))


It is better to be slapped with the truth than kissed with a lie. -Russian Proverb

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Tred
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Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending my condolences Aubrie.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
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5454real
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Default  Posted: 1:16 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

my prayers for you and your family.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
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― Sophocles, Antigone

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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 1:19 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm really sorry to hear this, Aubrie. Heartfelt condolences to you and your family.

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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 1:28 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry Aubrie. I hope you and your sister can find peace.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:28 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Aubrie, sister, and angel babies)))))


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 2:19 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry.


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Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry.


Take up your space (and do it well).

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Sis, Aubrie, & family)))

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Gottagetthrough
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Default  Posted: 2:44 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry.

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TattoodChinaDoll
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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Aubrie, Sis, and family))))

Wow...that just sucks beyond belief. It effing sucks. You all are in my prayers.


Me (BW): 32
WH: 33 TimeToManUp
Married: 11 years, together 16 years
3 daughters: 9, 5, 2, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011

Posts: 1718 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for y'all's lost.
My sister has had two miscarriages in the last two years also. :-(

She's currently 21 weeks with her third son and I'll be worried sick until he's safely in the newborn nursery.

Being a doctor who did OB up until last spring I know way too damn much.

May blessings be on you and your family.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2152 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 8:02 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone. I really appreciate it. Today sucked and the last think I wanted to do with my evening is make another charm to add to her Angel Baby necklace.

When travesty hits my sister (she had miscarriages as well) I can feel it too.
So I'm not the only one. I felt a little like a lunatic for admitting to that.

She told me she'd lost the baby and I was like, "I know." Her jaw dropped. I didn't know, know. But it just made sense. It clicked. Maybe I'm going crazy, I dunno. She actually seemed to find some comfort in it when I told her.

I totally understand Dr. PJ. If my sister can carry another one, we're all going to be on pins and needles till delivery.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6165 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
JustDone
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Default  Posted: 12:32 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs to you and your sister.

Sending a song to you both:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S2uC_ODp-Dc


Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.

Nobody forgets what happens, the secret is learning to live with it.


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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 12:52 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for posting that.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6165 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
JustDone
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Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're very welcome.


Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.

Nobody forgets what happens, the secret is learning to live with it.


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