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User Topic: Survived and thrived over anniversary weekend
ohiocarrie535
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Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We had a great time! We were both very relaxed, low key. Stuck to no talk of A. Although he alluded to it at one point. We ate, drank and basically just drove around, saw the sites and fished. I'm so glad I got to see my IC before I left. His advice to not over talk the A was right on. I feel like if we are talking about it, we aren't work on it. And I want to work things out ASAP. So I do beat the issue to death. Now I know it's ok to sit back and just be. Much less stress, and anger.

Posts: 83 | Registered: Jun 2013
krazy8516
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


me: BW, 30
him: WH, 25
us: edging closer to R every day

married 2y, together 2.5y
1 beautiful daughter, 23m

"Someday soon, I'm going to put my life together; Win or lose, I'm starting over again."


Posts: 368 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Texas
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's great! So happy it went well. Thanks for the update.


"The hero of my tale, whom I love with all the power of my soul, whom I have tried to portray in all his beauty, who has been, is, and will be beautiful, is Truth." - Leo Tolstoy

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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 5:18 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I really like that you're aiming at thriving. I'm glad the celebration went well.


FBH (me) - 65+, FWW (her) - 65+, Married 45+, together almost 49 (as of January, 2014)
DDay - 12/2010
Almost Recovered
I share my own experience not because I'm a good model but because it's the only experience I know.

Posts: 8865 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
catlover50
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Default  Posted: 5:24 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you both!



Dday -9/24/2012
Reconciling

Posts: 1649 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: northeast
Skan
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Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thriving is good! I'm glad that you were able to relax.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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